No one wants to be bullied. No one should be bullied. However, it happens everyday in Middle School.
Here are some advice for you my friend,these will improve the chances of not being bullied.
-Do not walk with your hands in your pockets. Examine your current habits, do any of them make you seem smaller, weaker or less physically capable?
-Self Esteem is even more important but harder to attain. You are a very important person. You matter! You matter to your parents, teachers and relatives. Self-confidence may be the only thing that seperates you from the most popular kid in school.
-When being made fun of, do not say anything but stare them viciously in the eye like a hungry animal. This may be difficult at first but you wont be giving them the reaction they want. They want you to give in and try to fight them so they can beat you. If you don't fight, they can't win.
-Do not believe that a teacher or parent or principal can save you from bullying. You should always tell a parent, teacher or principal if the bullying gets excessive. But they often can do nothing to protect you, you must protect yourself.
-Keep an eye out in the halls. These are great bully hideouts because they can strike while you are in a group so they wont be seen. Move amongst the other kids with head held high, scanning for threats.
Thats what I have for you! Now be like a man!
Be yourself....no matter what, self-confidence is EVERYTHING if you are not confident in yourself then you will lose.
You are worth it and you will make it through this. Life gets better. It truly does!
Re: I can By: Barbarious
Post # 12 Feb 03, 2009
Protip: don't take this as offence, but you're fat which is a really good thing because all you have to do is do weight lifts for 2 weeks straight and bam. I use to be really fat, and now im just fat. When i was really fat, people would do the same shit, so i did sit ups and barbells for 2 weeks straight, and 1 week later, the kids that were pickin on me when i was 11 got both of their heads bashed in.
the method I used method:
1. work out for 2 weeks straight
2. wait for them to attack
3. beat the crap out of them
4. get some reputation by doing step 3
5. no one will ever talk crap about you again.
plain and simple, never resolve to magical attacks, also this should be in a different board not here.
don't do magic spells they don't work.. spells don't work because if they did than the world would be very mysterious..
but if you want to do magic on them learn from me. Combative magic, with my teachings of strength power and speed with continuous energies you will be able to go up to them face to face and strike them with incredible speed..
Ummm to barb lifting weights doesn't make you "kick ass" and lifting weights for 2 weeks straight will show no effect, except body fat loss. You need to work out every second day so the muscle fibers can repair them selves if you don't they continually rip which won't heal which in turn damages the muscles and you won't see any results.
also to see results you must work out for 3 months to see any kind of results.
Re: I can By: Mef
Post # 15 Feb 03, 2009
don't do magic spells they don't work.. spells don't work because if they did than the world would be very mysterious..
By artofwoc.
I seriously don`t think that all the magic spells don`t work.Most of the spells here needed a lot of focus and will power.
artofwoc...to my knowledge spells do work.Yes runes gives us energy I do agree on that.But we do not/is not a must to have runes to cast spells.And thats your own believe,I respect that.For this case he have to stand for himself.He can only use magick to "aid" him.
Re: I can By: trav131
Post # 17 Feb 03, 2009
Okayy, Schools in session.
Now in order to help against bullies, gain friends. Have people on your side...you may need them later.
When they make fun of you, just laugh at what they are saying. It'll catch them off guard because it wont be the reaction they are looking for. I always say if you cant laugh at yourself then you cant laugh at others.
Build self-esteem. Its crucial that you do. Its one of the only ways you can get someone to stop making fun of you. By showing that you dont care, it makes it unfunny to them and they will soon stop.
Now, if a bully approaches you then have those friends I was telling you about with you. Once they see their friend in trouble then they will help you.
Bullies usually run in packs now-a-days. THat is dangerous, but avoidable. If you can create and control a servitor then you should use one for spying. Find something to break them apart. If you can break them apart and gain one of them on your side then this is the GREATEST weapon you've got. THey are easily beatable when they arent together.
If that fails then just declare war on them. I condone violence, so have your group of friends jump the bullies. You will gain respect and put a hurtin' on their candy a$$e$.
Re: I can By: BlackDahlia
Post # 18 Feb 03, 2009
I totally agree with you trav. I found myself being bullied in middle school almost everyday. But the reverse psychology works. Laugh at yourself with them. If they find that they arent hurting you emotionally they will give up and move on to someone else. You'll get through this, it's tough but you will. Kids are mean because they don't understand or they're jealous of you. Some of us grow out of it some don't. BE strong.
Re: I can By: AnnaMaria
Post # 19 Feb 03, 2009
Only if they attack you somewhere outside of the school can you take your revenge and hit them. Inside the school yard is a border where you can't fight with anyone. If you get attacked, go straight to the teacher/headmaster/someone and tell everything. It is not a cowardly act. This is what is going to help you. If there is someone else that is bullied, work together.
What is very wrong to do in situations like this is to beg for mercy. That is a mental food to those that bully. Don't give them the satisfaction, just answer them calmly like you are talking about the weather. Once they have no pleasure from torturing you they will stop. It is obvious that since you are here and know of magick, you have the ability to win the mental combat.
Re: I can By: LadyTessa
Post # 20 Feb 03, 2009
you know you yourself do not have to call the "Authorities". Someone else you know could, pretending to be a relative of one of the asbusers who feels bad for your situation.hehehhe... If ya want me too I will make that call. just pm me.