Hi! All,
I have done the needful. Thanks all of u to guide me and help me.
I WANT TO 1 clarification ON SOME THING....
a) I had kept the honey jar in the same drawer where I keep my unused candles to perform spells + the incense sticks + all the other matrials used to cast a spell. Should i dispose those materials also????
ALSO NEED HELP IN....
Can Someone tell me, WHATS THE BEST THING FOR ME TO DO NEXT, TO MAKE SURE....
1. ALL THE NEGATIVITY is removed from my ME
2. ALL THE WRONG EFFECT ON MY BF IS REMOVED. AS IN ALL THE HATERED HE HAS TOWARDS ME AND ALL THE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND FEAR HE HAS AGAINST ME, WHICH IS THE WRONG EFFECT OF THE HONEY JAR...HOW DO I RMEOVE IT???
3. WILL ALL THIS HELP HIM TO RELAIZE HIS MISTAKE AND COME BACK TO PATCH UP WITH ME????
I think something needs to be cleared up here that is very important...Which is why I asked the questions I asked.
You did the honey jar to get him to express his feelings for you.
You got EXACTLY that. He expressed his feelings for you, however they happened not to be very nice feelings.
Whether or not you think he had a reason for feeling how he did, I see this as a successful working jar. The intent was to sweeten him up to opening up to you...which he did.
Many times in relationships, our partners don't necessarily express everything. It happens.
I don't see this as a backfire. I see this as a successful work that ended up doing what it was supposed to...not what you hoped for.
Having said that, I understand you want the relationship to go back to the way you thought it was going. If you want to do that type of manipulative work, that's all fine and good..but I want to make sure you understand that in order for it to go back to how you liked it, clearly means you have to do work ON HIM to get him to ignore what he's recently expressed for you. It's dominating love work, basically.
Re: Honey Jar spell backfired By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 13 Aug 17, 2013
It is possible that he subconsciously sensed your influence on him and reacted in an extreme manner because consciously he couldn't understand what was happening. A sweetening spell doesn't backfire, in fact most of the time when someone shouts "backfire" what it truly is, is miscalculated magick not some cosmic force. You messed up casting it, maintaining it, or you were just too forceful causing his defenses to kick up. With hoodoo it is EXTREMELY important to keep your work area clean. Any energy around the jar can effect the jar's work. So, for instance if you cursed someone and didn't clean up that energy well enough, then did the sweet jar in the same space, the energy left over from the curse can rub off onto the sweetening work. That's why hoodoo practitioners try not to do more than one working at a time and if they have to, they're as careful as a chemist about keeping things separate and pure.
I would break the spell, cleanse and banish. Then either rework it more carefully or take it from a different angle. Maybe keep magick out of your relationships until you're more experienced
I will digress a bit...
why do you cast spells in the first place if you can't cope with the cost. everything cones with a price, especially things that aren't meant to be.
however, sucessful spellcasting is not what makes one a good caster, it's understanding why it went wrong if it does, and to predict the effects of a spell to prevent it in the first place. that's why an adept's spells always work because he can see all facets of reality and decide for the one that won't backfire...
I have to agree with Kache and WhiteRav3n. It's hasn't backfired, hoodoo spells don't backfire. If the spell hasn't gone as you wanted, it is mostly the intent and energy you put into it wasn't correct. You need to be sure what you want to achieve with your jar, and put that into your intent. Opening his feeling would not be the way to go, as those feelings could have been anything, and enhancing his feelings, without being specific can end badly like this. What you should have done is intend to strengthen the love you already had for eachother, instead of forcing him to expose feelings he didn't want to reveal.
To resolve this, I would start from scratch. Dispose of the jar and it's contents, completely. Then do an uncrossing spell to remove the effects of the spell, then once they have been successfully removed, start a new jar, focusing your intent on growing your love for eachother and strengthening your relationship. It will work as you want if you are more specific
and about the spell: I've seen that a lot of people do this honey jar spell and there is more than one saying it backfired. there is a story about the goddess Oshun and honey... but who wants will find it, it has to do with what will I say next.
We all need sweet, but sugar, as harmless as it can be, can kill a diabetic... the same thing here.
The spell is actually a lesser domination spell, and simple as it is, it's too agressive. It's like you are trying to eat a whole jar of honey, it's too sweet. too much sweetness is overbearing... and clogs the heart. it acts like poison, some survive, some don't.
If you try it again, dilute the honey 1/2 with water... and don't write names over each other, rather on the othar side of the paper...
and just because it's hoodoo, it doesn't mean it won't backfire. just because it's simple doesn't mean it won't make things complicated. i've seen tve simplest of spells distroy lives...
a spell does or does not backfires because of the tradition or simplicity; it backfires because of the caster and because of the unpredicted circumstances; thus, any spell can backfire.
Actually Lightbarer, as one is who part of the Tradition of Hoodoo, I can tell you that hoodoo doesn't backfire. What can happen is that you shouldn't have done the work to begin with, in which the spirits one works with will slap the snot out of you for not listening to them, or the results don't happen/don't happen how you wanted because you were not specific in your request.
As far as what ever deity you mention and sugar, as well as sugar and diabetes, that does not apply to the path of Hoodoo. Sugar, honey, molasses, and anything else sweet is used just for that. To sweeten. It is not over bearing, it isn't to much. It is very simple and very direct with what the intent it.
While I can understand you do not know the tradition and thus are basing your conclusions on your beliefs, you do not get to redefine what is believed, worked, practiced and thought of in Hoodoo since it's not yours to change.
Diluting the honey means, in a traditional sense, you are diluting the intention and the amount of time it takes to take effect.
Separating the names on the petition paper, means you are separating the people from each other. You write the names on top of each other to show a oneness/relationship.
Wow! Anywho I agree that the honey jar spell did not backfire. I have never seen one not work but my intent was never for love. I only use them to sweeten a relationship. Should still work if it has not already gone to pot.
