Re: newbie (rea love spells ) By: Nekoshema / Novice
Post # 11 Feb 07, 2014
you should study what magick can and can't do along with 'the basics' of energy work and casting. there's a few reasons why your spell failed, you might not of charged enough energy, you might not of focused enough, [if you read it off a piece of paper for instance] you didn't clear your mind so you could focus, you didn't put forth any effort afterwards to attain your goal [say talk to the person after casting the spell, get to know them] the spell takes longer than you anticipated to manifest [spells are rarely if ever instant, so wait a few days] the person you cast over has a stronger will than you, or the spell just didn't work.
walk before you run, study before you do. while magick is something you experience, understanding the why and the how before casting is very important. love spells are especially tricky, if you're casting over someone, you need to overpower their free will [personal choice] with yours and the energy in the spell. everyone is different, so this might take an hour, or it could take a month. talking with the person, getting to know them, can help quicken the spell. however, the person will forever be subconsciously fighting against the spell to regain their free will. again, for some the spell could be broken in an hour, or in a year, it depends, so spells of this nature [where you cast over your crush] need to be recast often. a spell that's used more as a charm to attract love is a bit easier, not as big of a moral quandary, and doesn't need to be recast. these spells don't cast over a specific person, it's more of a wish you send out for the universe to let your paths cross. [example, that feeling you get randomly to go into a store, or walk down a side street]
welcome to the site, i wish you luck in your studies.
Seeing how your other post was about breaking up your ex and her current boyfriend, I'd reconsider doing any kind of spell at all on either of them.
I personally dont like use magick to involve myself like that (especially in someone elses relationship).
Do your groundwork first. Read and study about the practice before doing any casting.As other's have told you in both posts, you have to learn to walk before you can run. Dont get ahead of yourself.
This is a perfect example of how not all moderators have the same opinion. I got my information off of posts from another moderator from months ago. Hope that wont be considered arguing. Just pointing that out in an effort not to mislead anyone. Also not saying anyones opinion is wrong.