I don't understand why you would want someone who hurt you so much back. [Granted, I'm not one to talk, don't get me started on my first boyfriend.] I can relate to the pain, it takes time [sadly there really isn't a set time to heal] you don't have to go into great detail because I feel your answer doesn't involve spell casting. You should stop and take a moment. Meditate, reflect, and try to make a logical decision. At this moment she is everything in your eyes, but is it love when someone causes you such pain? You might think it is, or not, but you need the time to soul search before doing something you may regret.
If after everything you still feel like casting, look at the site spells, I'm sure you'll find a spell or two to help.
Its obviously over? How many times have we got back together? A lot! Its not over just cuz shes seeing him. U dont know the details. Am I stupid for still loving her..yes.but love is crazy. She likes the drama and saga of it. So many what if.s why.s...etc. no set time limit is accurate. When I was finally over her she seems to want me back. This guy is gonna use her and leave her. She likes the chase and controls men. She got me where she wants me. Hurt and dependant on her. Im just a back up plan. I realize this is about spells and not therapy so I would appreciate not getting put down when you dont know the details.
Look things happen, and you are completely obsessed with her. It is not healthy to keep loving a woman who is cheating on you, and lying. Of is a perpetual thought to be clear!
Think about it, is she really worth this trouble? I honestly doubt she is. It seems like of was good, but now your just causing conflict. If she loves another man, then she does. People change, don't be so obsessed with a person who has hurt you!
Is she worth it? I doubt it. She is causing you cyber and mental pain. It is not a wise choice to continue this path.
You say you love her, but then you say she has you trapped! I don't get it? Is there something, myself and others are missing?
Also you just stated, your her, ''backup'' plan. That says a lot! It seems time, like you don't know your own feelings about this, and you enjoy being a little puppy around her. What is love? Well making a loved one trapped in a web, is not love! Making someone hurt is not love! So Think about it.
Im hoping to get other opinions. U gave your opinion. Ok I get it. U think its over and I can just let it go with out doing anything. Now im hoping for another opinion besides yours.
One person told me to fight for the relationship ur sayin g leave it alone. I dont know if you feel the need to be right over other peoples opinions or just trolling my thread so I dont get more helpful advise.
