Wiccan Rede Crisis

Any spell cast out of anger or any type of hurt is generally a bad idea. I sincerely suggest that you just let it go. Be the better person here, and let the situation go, and move on.

Regards,
Scrupulous

No worries Magi, it was just how you worded it, I understand what you mean now. I hope so too. =)

Do it the old fashioned way. Hire somebody to beat the "stuffing" out of him. Have another destroy his new home. Tell his boss he is selling drugs to minors. Just dont use a spell. Backfiring is terrible!

And what you suggested isn't terrible? That's even worse in my opinion, all of which is against the law.

I know. Im just trying to give her ideas so she's not always relying on spells!

In my experience (Not to against your beliefs) Revenge spells don't backfire unless you expect them too (Occasionally it will draw a lower entity)

Well, the spell has given me peace of mind in a way, Im not mad at this person anymore.

Again, this is only fixing an unjust situation, not intentionally hurting the guy. I am only sending back to him what he has sent me.

An eye for an eye would make the world blind... who said that?

aha but an eye for an eye would make you "see" my view clearly. punny advice is amazing.

Unless in self defense it be, ever mind the law of three. If you are Wiccan harming someone else would probably cross your mind, but you would understand that the ethics behind it is not to act in such feeling. Accoordingly what we do has retribution, be it positive or negative, we get what we give.

It is sad that you went through a deceiving situation with your partner, but if we are relaying on the Wiccan Rede as a basis for acting in response and I quote act in "revenge" , you are bound to receive karmic feedback. My recommendation for moving on, is a focused mind and time. To be aware of what you are now, and why, and who you want to be. Sorrounding yourself in positiveness as a method for internal and external development. (Recommending alot of meditation, and the use of healing).