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Conjuredoc - Wikipedia is the worst resource you can use for anything, not to mention most schools and colleges won't even accept it as a reference as it is edited by anyone and everyone. You will find more opinion within most wiki's than actual truth. If you are going to suggest that someone reads all of something, makes sure its a creditable source. ;)

Draggy we certainly need more people like you, its been a while since i have seen real knowledge on here aside from a few members like kts, i completely agree and see draggy's view, at the moment i don't really have much to add to this most of what is needed was already said.

@ Dragsters, I think you should read my post again, maybe you will understand it better a second time ;)

But if you don't, I was referring to passages from the wikipedia page being used in an argument against me, so I quoted the same page, showing how weak the argument is, hope this clears that up for you ;)

Children, children..LOL. Someone asked for help. And instead of providing solutions, you'll are sqabbling. Like grow up, seriously... LOL! If we cant think of a way to help bluelight lets start another thread where can take a go at each other. But lets have respect for the person who asked for help.

How can you let someone beat you? Move out.

I have chroniic illness and find it hard to even get out of bed.I am trying to move out but have little money to support me.Yes its true the guards didnt believe me.Why would I come on here looking for pity.
I have done a protection spell.Thank you to the poeple who believe me.i cant understand why someone wouldnt believe me or say Im looking for attenntion.
This is exactly what the guards thought .So kt you are just like them .

What country do you live in?

Are there organizations there outside of the government that assist with abuse?

If so, have you gone to see them?

Are you of legal age in your country to be on your own?

Are there laws in your country that might prevent you from leaving the home of your parents?

I have been in an abusive home situation before, it wasn't something I got out of by myself. You MUST find a battered shelter or some other agency who is not necessarily part of the police force, to assist you. And you must be brave enough to do this regardless of any cons. The only motivator for you should be that abuse gets worse not better. You must decide if living is better than dying at the hands of your abuser. This is the harsh but serious reality of abuse.

I might also suggest that you at least call a battered hotline of some sort or find a website that counsels people being abused. Those peopled are _trained_ to handle these situations and aren't some people who make judgements about what you may or may not be doing right or wrong. Their greatest concern will be getting you out of the situation you are in so you can deal with the other issues you are having.

Complete aside and nothing to do with bluelight3: I find it reprehensible that those of you who have A. Never met or dealt with IN person a person who has suffered the unimaginable cycle of familial abuse (ie worked in a battered shelter or manned phones for a battered hotline) OR B. Actually have had college level education in dealing with someone who has suffered abuse to pass judgement or to even comment or attempt to give advise. Your trite handling of an issue that KILLS thousands of men and women yearly is absolutely disgusting. If you don't believe someone who is saying they are a victim of abuse. Be quiet. Don't add to their horrendous situation your personal prejudice against situations you could not possibly understand. (Before you ask I met both the above requirements).

thank you .I ws actually living with a guy who mentally and physically abused me so i moved back home and now the same is hapening here.i have rang abuse centres and had appointment first thing in the morning but im very unwell and its a good bit to travel.i will have to wait till im better .its killing me that im not well enough to work or to do anything to help myslef.i went to my sisters house to escape but she was abusive to me too .i dont know why this is happening to me

Hey bluelight, its not anyone's fault really. It's just that there are alot phonies who come here, bugging the hell out of people with fake stories. I know its sad when someone comes in with a genuine problem but you really cannot blame people for being defensive. kts and brysing are two of the few sensible people here. I am terribly sorry to hear about your condition. And if you're that unwell, you should seriously avoid casting heavy duty spells and instead opt for something you can chant in bed. Check your mail, you'll know what I mean

Try going to www.thehotline.org. The site specializes in your situation and can help you, even with transportation. You need to explain in depth your challenges and issues. Good luck and I will be praying for you.