I'm not looking for anything special or specific, and nothing of the ritual kind. A small chant, or something similar would do it I think. I ask here instead of going to the spell book so I can get spells that other have tried and found to work out well.
I would suggest trying to build a better bond then. If you truly want the connection but need time alone as well try becoming more in tune with communication.
1. Treat her more like a Person that you're in a relationship with, instead of a toy to put away at your leisure.
Now you may not really see her as such, but that is mildly implied that you feel she isnt on the same "playing field" you are.
Demons and humans are very similar in some respects. on the whole a Demon had Hightened.. apetites compaired to humans.
And she/he (depending on the situation) Will be direct about it. And why not? their race does not suffer from the emotional and ethical considerations of humanity. They're above it.
Best option is, if you haven't yet, working on your communication. Talk to her, and Work with her.
Like it or not, if she agreed to be Bound in a blood contract.. you two are stuck together. (for the most part).
and that makes you partners. To her it might just be a step below engagement.
You'll both be able to co-exist better if you are able to sit down and talk out exactly what you expect and what she expects as well.
The only other thing, In my opinion, is to release the contract and free her. And depending on what happened that might not even be an option. Blood contracts are Designed to be Not breakable, But are Releasable by the original Creator/facilitator of the contract.
But you must also realise that there are concequences. If you are extremely lucky, the worst senario is she leaves. and doesnt come back.
Worst case: death or spiritual Maiming. Ie a gaping Hole in the centre of yourself/soul. Dont think I need to say why That would be bad ^^
Demons are just as intelligent as we are. If not more so.
If she's wearing you down, Talk to her. Point out whats causing the issue, if you need space ect, and try to Mutually work to resolve it. Pushing her away, even Gently, Even with energies more "like" hers will be Insulting to her.
You Really should determine her feelings for you as well.
If she Willingly consented to the binding, then you must have had Some appeal to her on Some level.
I dont know the whole story, nor am I trying to put you down (though the intro is a bit hard). But this situation is of your devising (insofar As you have made us aware) and needs to be delt with in a mature Person to Person, Face to Face fashion.
Please believe me when I say I have 'spoken' with her quite often about our partnership, be it I can only do so when dreaming, or in a trance. But there are times when she does things that really do not help, and actually bother me, but she insists on them nonetheless.
If it makes it easier to give some advice we've been together for almost four years, and I have come to care for her, I really have, just some times I need a little more space than she's giving.
I will not argue that at first I thought of her as an item, which I soon realized was quite wrong in many ways. I was arrogant, and conceited, I probably still am, but shes helped me appreciate her company.
Wow, after reading through what you said a third time I think I know why shes been so 'cuddlesome' for a lack of a better word, lately. Thank you so much Flagg, I owe you a debt of gratitude for helping me.
Hopefully tomarrow I'll have some good news to share here.
Flagg is right, this deffinately is a demon who has come to care for you as more than a blood bind. it does often happen and it is one of the few way we get to truley find out wonderfull things about the afterlife. when she is not with you does she go home (is she allowed to) due to your bllodbind, anything you say becomes a kind of rule to her (withuot being too restricting) so if she doesnt go home, suggest she spends 1 hour a day in hell. i promise she will be gratefull if she hasnt been allowed this privelage. also give her taks to perform for you. every woman who is as smitten as she is loves when her lover has asked her to do a simple chore, and he comes home and she has everything waiting and ready for him. small things, looking for astral treasures, armour made in hell fire (much more effective then an energy sheild) get her to learn how to manifest touch in our physical, i promise you there is nothing more wonderfull than a massage from a demon or angel, it really is like melting into each other. you never know she may even (with enough energy and love from you, know love is the key, with love we can hold on so tight, when we phase from astral back we can bring things back with us) you never know, you may have a very exciting future. also once she is ready ask if you can go with her to hell to meet her family. hell can be wonderfull if you go to the right places within hell, also it burns karma while you are there, so triple score
Well, I have good news. Thanks to the advice of Flagg, I know whats been bothering her as of late. She was hiding the suspicion that I was interested in mortal woman. I was honestly surprised, but I was able to assure her that is was not true. She was really afraid of loosing me, by death I love her. Thank you so much Flagg.
and to balance, I have given her a great amount of freedom, other than havening to be home by sunrise I don't have anything that prevents her from doing as she pleases. As for requests, I guess I used to do that, I would ask her about where she came from, she even taught me how to play the flute, which I used to do quite often for her, but I had to give the flute up, I was only renting it and couldn't afford it anymore.
As for the astral...I should really learn much more about that, for her, and her manifesting into the physical world, she can do that, I think, often times if I misplace something, she'll move it to where its right in front of me, even then I sometimes miss it. She thinks its hilarious.
Again, thank you all who have given me so much advice here.
im glad things are going better ;) i have many spirits that either hide things away from me or bring them back for me, ogten people say my house is a blach hole cos you walk in and 10 minutes later things that were in there pockets are in the kitchen... i love it, you can however give her full physical form, remember a soul (human demon or angel) does no feel sensations like we do in the physical it is an almost numbed sensation for them, but with physical form, she will be able to truly feel your touch or eat a macdonalds burger (mac donalds is big treats in hell, they absolutely love it.) also with her around astral should be quite easy for you, if you hit any stumbeling block feel free to let Kao or i know and we can help.
