No offense but thats dumb, a love spell only gives the ilusion of love, if you love something let it go, and if your not a jerk dont use a love spell (I know that thats not how the saying goes but it makes mor sence this way)
More often than not, we tend to confuse love with lust. You are young, so it is understandable. I am of the belief that if it wasn't meant to be, it will not be. No amount of desire or magick can forge love, nor bring one to love, it is only illusion~ love is a fire that starts with a spark, and grows into bright flames. Sometimes that fire dies out for whatever reason; people change, there are differences that cause rift, etc. The sea is vast, the fish many. Think small, you box yourself in; think big, and the world becomes your oyster. This is just my outside-the-box-but slightly-pressed-against-it opinion. Why not use the time you now have to expand and grow?
I always used my downtime to reflect and make some changes, and each relationship has progressively gotten better than the previous one. Desperation only drives people to make regrettable decisions that have disastrous consequences. Good luck to you, may your heart heal soon.
Dusseldorf:
I agree completely. I cast a few some years back, and they all backfired horribly, even turning to humiliation and contempt towards me. Now I avoid them like the plague!
I've had the same thing happen, let's just say I got my wish but not in the way I wanted. (And this wasn't even a love spell directed toward a specific person! I can only imagine how bad it would have been if I had tried to bend someone's will.)
So true! I will not ever try such spells gain; however, I would utilize an attraction spell, wear an enchanted item, project an aura that would draw people to me, etc. But I am finding that certain people just exude vibes easy to detect and latch onto. And keeping an opened mind doesn't hurt, either. There are so many means to achieving the goal, if that is one's desire.
Love spells DO work. But before you decide for certain that this is what you really want to do, be advised, a love spell will affect both of you. Let me tell you from experience, you will feel everything they feel. You won't eat. You won't sleep. You won't function well at work. If you don't have the patience and self control to bare the despare until they come back, don't do it. You'll only stress them out and break the spell.
Thank u all...i have let that person go before and they have came back to me without a spell but i figured this was it...that it was ment go b that is y it is so hard to let go..i understand the drawbacks with love spells and everything n i am n love with this person my heart is with her..u cant blame me for wantin to try to get her back..i just want her back n my arms and the pain to go away
It sounds like your loss is still very fresh. I think you need some time to heal before deciding what you want to do next. If they came back once, they may come back again. Would you want to wonder if it was your spell or their actual love for you that made them return? I believe you should wait. Do you know that statistically, the best and longest lasting relationships go through a few small breaks? The time apart allows both sides to re-establish their individual identities and independence which allows for a healthier relationship than those that become extremely dependent on one another to the point of being incapable of coping apart. You're not thinking clearly right now, you are reacting from pain. Calm down. They aren't dead. You have time to patch things up the right way. Let both sides settle down and see what happens.
You are right it is still fresh for me. The inly thing is she is already out with other ppl and i am sitting here hurting. She is spending time with a ex that hurt her. I have tried benin a friend n icant i miss and want her back terriblely. I feel as tho i am dying i want to believe she will b back. We have gone this 3 times already. My love for her is strong sobis my want n my will....i just eant her back all the things she promised i want what she promised me...i want her
