You really should avoid messing with free will. Especially if you are needing advice on finding a spell. Have a healthy level of communication and if the person says no it means no. Respect others as ou wish to be respected my dear. And if you really want to get into sex and love magic I think you should really look at motives going in. Really make sure it's something you wanna do because ou don't want anything backfiring or awkward situations blowing up in your face. Good luck with talking to them!
Re: Lust spell help please?!? By: Kaurora / Novice
Post # 4 Apr 12, 2016
I never recommend spells. I agree with the other posts as well, if you have already established a relationship with this individual, then you have already opened the door, now its just creating opportunity, which you don't need a spell for, just initiative.
As for some other thoughts, a lot of people use the Ylang-ylang plant to help increase sexual desire. You can buy it in an oil form and wear it, but opportunity to be around that person is key. Since this is no different then wearing perfume it isn't interfering with free will, but rather helping your opportunity come to pass.
Re: Lust spell help please?!? By: H2OfanRikki / Novice
Post # 7 Apr 12, 2016
Shaeza, no matter how much experience someone has you shouldn't just jump on the spell caster boat. All spells are better if written and cast ourselves, they are also free and much more likely to work.
If you really can't communicate with this person before resorting to a spell then maybe you shouldn't be getting intimate with this person in the first place. No matter what kind of relationship you plan to have with someone, communication is a massive part of that.
Agreed. It is better to cast the spell yourself and greater to make it yourself. Lust is something very difficult to control, and it is very unlikely at best you can come up with a spell capable of influencing it directly, but that is not to say you can't make spells to better your chances. Just keep at it, and before even considering another person making and casting a spell for you, try, try, try again at your own spells and just keep at it.
You will find that most serious practitioners will not assist you in tampering with free will, if and where such a thing is possible. There are many who believe in Karma and do not want it biting them. Others believe it is morally wrong. Maybe some would help but is it worth it just to fulfill a lust? I digress, as it is your choice what you do but it is that person's choice, you want to bend to your will.
Sheaza, if you already have had an encounter with this person you should wait to see you might get you another time with this person it may happen or it may not, but if there was chemistry it can happen again