I have done exactly that, but it's getting worse. No more cute texts from him, only general chit chat, and I haven't seen him in 3 weeks. A month ago he told me he loved me, and then, he went cold. I'm in so much emotional pain and he comes to me in my dreams. I've never felt so strongly about another person before, there's no doubt in my mind that he is meant for me.
I have been very open and honest with him about my feelings and what I wanted from him. He responded well, but wouldn't commit. So I pulled back, stopped saying I love you and stopped telling him how special he is to me, and it's gotten worse from there. He won't see me now. When I text him to see if we can get together it is ignored.
I'm going to be brutally honest and this might sound harsh. A love spell or whatever probably won't help, even if it ends up working. A spell won't make a person commit to you. While it might persuade them, it's just not going to happen if they're strong willed enough or "just playing games."
You said he's been hurt before, but it seems more like he's only hurting you by leading you on and then ignoring you. The best spell you could do in that case is one to help you forget him and move on with your own life.
even though sometimes moving on is good, you could use something called a Honey Jar spell. It doesn't work in the same way as a love spell, as in making them love you. A honey jar spell will just sweeten up your lover towards you, but you still have to do some work; it won't just make him fall head over heels for you.
There are some good honey jar spells on here, though I suggest adapting them for yourself as that makes the spell stronger.
Is that right? I had wondered if maybe my spells were not working because I wasn't doing them correctly or not using the right ingredients. But you can adapt spells? Interesting.
There is no set way to do a spell. You can modify them and adapt them to suit your own needs. Try experimenting with different spells and also keep in mind that it can take months or years before a spell actually gets into action.
I did not realise they took so long to work, I've been casting spells for a week and was thinking I must be doing them wrong since nothing has worked, He is actually further away from me now than he has ever been. Is it ok for me to be doing different spells every few days, but for the same intent? Will that make it stronger or just confuse things? Thank you for your help x
