I need a breakup spell

That’s actually some pretty solid advice. I think I’ll do that once everything is back to normal, because we don’t live together.

I just came looking for a spell because I didn’t want to hurt them.. like I said earlier, I have no self-respect.

I wouldn't say anything negative about you. These kinds of things are very difficult to do. It takes a lot of courage, and most people would need to work themselves up enough to do it.

Also doesn’t help that they have threatened an individual with a knife. Not me, but I’m scared now.

Yeah, get out of there as soon as you possibly can, and get away as effectively as possible. It may well be worth contacting mediation, such as having a police officer present when you remove your belongings.

Well, should be a bit easier than getting an officer, I don’t live with my partner as we are still in school.

And they did say they were moving to Texas.

Somehow I overlooked not cohabitating. If your other is the type to make violent threats, look into legality of recording telephone calls. In some states, neither notice nor consent is necessary, and if that's your home state, then I'd suggest recording the call, and breaking up with him over the phone. If he makes any sort of threats, you have evidence in case he chooses to escalate.

You need to take a deep breath and tell them. Yes, it will be tough, yes it will hurt, but it is better than living a lie. Staying in an unhappy relationship will harm both of you in the long term. Look for a self-confidence chant to help you find the strength to have the situation.

As for the actual breakup talk, if you're scared for your safety, I would call them. I'm assuming you're in quarantine like the rest of the world, so call them [do not text them. In-person is best, but for your safety, call them] You'll both have time to heal and get over the breakup in solitude [and if they show up at your door, call the cops. The person cannot be at your house if they don't live there at this time]

Thanks, people who replied, for advice. I will follow this advice to the best of my ability.