So if this man is willing to be unfaithful to his wife and take up with you, is this really the sort of man you want? Chances are if he is unfaithful once he'll be unfaithful again and there you'll be along and hurt again.
True, but I also knew him before he met her. He knew I had a boyfriend. So its a case of he got married because I was with someone else. He and myself did it before he met her.
You deserve better than the guy who is mean to you. Dump him.
Next, whilst there are love spells you can do, if you have to use a spell to be with someone, it's not true love. Would be more practical if you work out your issues without magic.
Also before you jump into another relationship with the married guy, you need to give yourself some thinking time to determine whether you really want to go down that road or if you only found him more appealing now because of your existing unhappy relationship. Finally he did not get married to someone else because you were in a relationship with someone else ok. He could have just dated her, he could have tried harder with you, he could have chose to wait it out...but he chose to get married. That should say something to you.
I agree with you. But he begged me to be with him. I couldn't because at that time my relationship was going good. It was not for a bit when we first got together. Anyways, I will look for a spell for general love then. Thanks for your input.
Let me see if I'm reading this right, you knew a guy when you were 21, who wanted to be with you, but you rejected him because you were in a relationship and wanted to stay with your boyfriend. Years later the first guy is married and your relationship has soured so you want to leave your guy only if the married man leaves his wife for you? It all sounds really selfish to me, do you have a fear of loneliness? Like the only reason you're staying with a man who you no longer love is because you worry if you'll ever find love again? You had a chance with the married man, but didn't take it, and now you regret your choice, which is painful, but why hurt his wife who did nothing simply because you regret your decision. [and maybe he's in love with his wife and wants to stay with her] if you can't make it work with your current partner, it's better for both of you to end it. He may still love you, but you don't, and [conscious of your actions or not] will begin to resent and scorn him which is cruel and uncalled for. I would look into spells to help you move on and get back on your feet.
If you insist on pursuing the married man, and he already had feelings for you, try a breakup spell, and a honey jar. The breakup spell will weaken the relationship and the honey jar will sweeten him to you. [granted love built on manipulation will end in desaster, but I guess as long as you're happy] just be careful what you wish for.
Umm you do not know the whole situation by the way. I actually did not reject him. His wife has been cheating on him, he wanted to come meet me just after he started dating his wife. I'm the one who told him no. I said don't you have a girlfriend now? Anyways I will do some law of attraction work, and general love spells thanks.
