Do you really think it's about growth? I take the doubt in this matter. The father is worried about you. And he does not tell you why. I think that the problem does not lie on the surface, it lies deeper. You have to analyze and understand the situation. If you can not, I'll help you
Your dad obviously knows something you don't and is horrible on making excuses because unless there's some chemical imbalance involved which I doubt. Now obviously most on this thread have been quite rude and not suggesting quite the right ideas. Obviously you care for both your father and your boyfriend or you might of already chosen your answer. Now the chemical imbalance (don't worry we all have them, some less extreme then others but we all have them) if that would be the case would most likely be OCD and he can't help but to feel that the male should be taller or it's not OCD then there could be some emotional scaring related to height he may or may not be aware of. Now you expected a magickal answer I assume or you wouldn't be at this website. First you must try to solve this without magick, if you can solve a problem without magic you always should so it's best you have a calm chat with your dad if every thing fails, then magic. Be patient and use magic as a last resort.
Yes, I've already tried speaking to my father about the situation. He's just ashamed of me dating someone who's shorter than me. Since he comes from a small town where everyone critiques everything anyone does, my dad's more ashamed of what these people are going to be saying about him having a daughter dating a shorter guy. But that's the least of my concerns. I'm 26, my bf's 27 and my dad is 50 years old. I'm the eldest of his children. I know for a fact that me being the eldest has a lot to do with it. But he can't be doing this with everyone I date (this isn't the first time). But this relationship has been very serious. Talking with him hasn't worked. I've cried my eyes out and pleaded my dad. That didn't work. I don't know what else to do. That's exactly why I'm turning to magic. Like I said before, at this point in time, I'm truly desperate for SOMETHING or SOMEONE to help me with this.
try use a good luck spell and talking to him. If that doesn't work, use a more powerful spell that will change his mind ,yet you must be aware that magic is real tricky.
Re: Please help me! By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 12 May 26, 2012
You're old enough to make your own choices. If I had listened to my mother, who didn't like my boyfriend, I wouldn't have been married to the man of my dreams and then had a beautiful (now six year old) daughter with him. If your father can't respect your decisions, than its just too bad. The only thing I can suggest magickally is a platonic love spell. It may smooth the way to your boyfriend and father getting to know each other. If all works well, when the influencement wears off, they'll be bonded and your father won't care that this man is shorter than you. Any spells for realization or sweetening will fail if your father is dead set in his decision.
I know its tough having to make a choice between a parent and a romantic love relationship, but you have to consider the fact that your father cannot give you that sort of love and if you let him choose for you, years down the line, he'll pass away and you'll be alone or with someone you don't truly love...with the regret of "what if"
Him being short is a big deal why? The Big Bang Theory is a TV show which sets an example because he is a very short guy and any girlfriend he's every had in the show was taller then him so in day and age your height doesn't matter and your father needs to get with the times
Also if want to be with him then screw your father because you're the one who has to live your life and not him and if he doesn't like it well then that's will forever be his problem and not yours
