spell casters on here?

Why do you think you Must use Magick? Why can't you let nature take it's course? Forcing someone to love you against their free will is not going to end well.

Some herbs you might use for this:

cinnamon and ginger to heat things up

balm of gilead buds (this one would be hard to find, i think), for soothe the past hurts

lavender for calming

cubeb berries for an extra push of command

juniper berries, sugar (any kind, though natural is obviously better then HFCS)

damiana and catnip to draw him and snag him in

Hey guys. Snowyowl, i did as u suggested and got some of the herbs i found catnip,cinimon and sugar, but am concerned about how the candle went..... im not sure if it was to do with the candle holder, or maybe i dressed it wrong, but the candle seemed to burn quickly and had a high flame then left a bit of wax on the side... im unsure of what this will mean for my spell...... does anyone else know?

Come on People help me out.

You need to believe the spell will work if you have doubts it could lead to failure. I dont mean like "come on spell work work come on" it could take days or weeks for it to work. Just believe it will and give it time dear.

If that fails then maybe invite him for dinner and have a nice quiet talk and tell him you still have feelings?

You really want someone to love you because of a spell? Seems it would be fake love. You want fake or real? Going against free will is never a good idea.

I agree with the others, casting love spells on a specific person is a form of mind control, which, in my opinion, is harming them. The others are right with it making them love you against their free will. I wouldn't do it if I were you.

My question is this: Why are people so hell-bent on using magick as a cure-all to every problem or obstacle life throws at them?
Seems rather pedestrian and wasteful to use it for everything.
While I utilise magick in many ways and for many ends, it to me is best utilised for deeper things, like understanding the universe; Connecting with Nature; and altering chance and probability to a more favourable degree. I do not waste precious time and energy trying to win back someone who doesn't desire to be with me personally. The extent of the magick I do utilise in regards to love is simply to draw someone who may be interested; I am not a proponent of binding. It seems such a selfish thing to me to alter the paradigm of free will.
Use psychology; use creativity; or better yet, expand your circle and meet new people.
I am not desiring to offend, nor sway one direction or the other.
Magick is just so much bigger than a simple tool to be used in such a plebian way.

Ive tried other options i.e talking to the person in my situation and im still trying to do so to no avail. He is a grown man heavily influenced by everyone around him. I know how much of a good person he is when hes not under influence of others, which is why ive been trying to find a spell that actually works or a GENUINE (not shouting just enphysis) spellcaster that is willing to help give my ex a nudge and remind him what it is about me he loved in the first place....... also why i was wondering if anyone knew of any genuine spell casters thst maybe able to help me cos im at my eits end ive tried spells myself to no success

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