Bringing back the dead

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Re: Bringing back the dead
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Dear friend,
I am so very sorry for the pain and loss you feel. I have children who have struggled with great emotional challenges, too. I haven't lost one to death - I can only imagine the pain, loss, guilt (There is no need for guilt, but as a parent of a child in such pain we feel we sholud be able to help) you are feeling.

It is OK to hurt, but please see that the pain is for you: our loss, your shattered expectations, and again perhaps misplaced guilt or feelings of failure. Your child was alive before she came to you, and is alive today, though no longer in the body you knew. For her there is healing and the chance to begin again. But she will not come back to the old body, not be the girl you knew.

So let yourself cry over the loss. It needs to happen. And be patient with that until it passes. And release her. If there are things you wish you had said, you can do so in a meditation, or write them out and burn them, sending her the words. And then, as you are able, release.

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Re: Bringing back the dead
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Post # 6
I know your pain, my niece she passed away sunday and today was her funeral she was 6 months, it's hard I know... Though you can't bring her back, think of the good times you had with her, all the movies you two watched, like a previous comment said, light a candle, pray, visit her grave, or even light incense for her. Know she is happy where she is, bringing her back to where she had pain, sorrow, and was hurtting would be damaging, and she would of done the same thing. She is watching over you my friend, protecting you and loving you from where she is.
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Re: Bringing back the dead
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So sorry about your loss, I know there are no words of comfort that any of us could say that will help heal your pain and grief that your feeling. Just know that she is always with you in spirit form, all you need dois say her name and she will let you know she is with you, either by a gentle breeze or whisper in your ear, or a bird or butterfly that she loved or a flickering light or candle flame, she is always there trying to comfort you. My advice would be to join either a victims of suicide support group, or a group for parents who have lost a child they will be able to provide the support and help that you desperstely need to move on. Then maybe you can help others suffering from depression and suicidal tendancies don't let her death be in vain, volunteer to or start a scholership fondation in her name
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Re: Bringing back the dead
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Post # 8
If you were to mess around with a power so deep who's to say what could happen the balance must always be restored ... A life for a life and eye for an eye if u did manage to get her back it probably woildnt be her you shouldn't mess with the stages of reincarnation I'm so sorry for your loss remember our souls are energy new energry can be created but energy can not be destroyed
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Re: Bringing back the dead
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Post # 9
Just think,your daughter must have been terribly, unbelievably unhappy to do such a thing. And now? She is at peace. No more heartache,no more unhappiness. At peace, It is the wish at every funeral, Rest In Peace. Yes, it is those left behind who feel the grief.But it will pass in time. The thing to remember is your daughter as she was was.
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Re: Bringing back the dead
By: / Beginner
Post # 10
Brendalee82,

Our hearts go out to you for your loss. It seems a tragic, and ill-fitted, premature end.
However, unfortunate as the circumstances may be, I fear time cannot be undone. Now is a time to reflect on the past, to learn from it, and to accept that it is, in reality, no longer a viable part of your physical realm.
Remember your lost, keep them in your heart, do a ritual now and again to issue them safe passage in the planes beyond our own, but also come to accept that they cannot exist further in our reality.

You shoul seek guidance from the spirits, make peace with whichever diety you sibscribe to, bessech the wisdom and warding of whatever faith you wield, and pursue a greater life for yourself beyond this terrible point in your life; but you cannot undo the tragic circumstances that have landed on your shoulders, the best you can do is ensure they do not reign as sovereign over your own life.

Many faiths believe in the representation of a lost loved-one through their corporeal form, and seek to bind the spirit thusly; Voodoo/hoodoo/vodun seek this through the utilization of juju-physical bodily elements that are believed to allow the lost spirit to bridge the worlds accordingly. If you wish you may pursue this end. But, though it may invite your child's wondering soul to come rest time-to-time in our world, it cannot bind the soul here.

Blessed be my dear, and may you find peace, and regain order, as time passess.
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Re: Bringing back the dead
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Post # 11
I am always sad to hear things like that, but truth is; it happens, and you can't change it. You will have to face reality, but no I am sorry you can't bring a person back to life. It's physically impossible!

There are ways to honour her. Light candles on her birthday, leave out gooD's in Halloween, and talk to her, or ask her questions. She may visit in dreams, but most importantly, accept the reality. This is the first part of healing.

It's sad to see this, bit she will live, happily.
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Re: Bringing back the dead
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Post # 12
I'm sorry to hear about this,but remember,she is in a better place now

Sadly,you can't resurrect her,but you can honour her in many ways

You can also try and communicate with her spirit,there are many ways,but it's best done by a professional

My blessings are with you
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Re: Bringing back the dead
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Post # 13
I am incredibly sorry for your loss. It's hard to imagine someone so young that feels that low to get to that point. Please know the people here feel sympathy.

Unfortunately, as the others have said, we can't resurrect a loved one's physical identity back into life. Remembering them keeps them with us in the physical realm. But,like the others said, seek out a support group. Seek therapy to help you in this time. When it comes to witchcraft or any spiritual faith you have, you can practice meditation or ritual in order to speak with her spirit. If reincarnation is valid out there, she may have moved forward in her soul's journey. But, please feel free to message me. We can talk more there.
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Re: Bringing back the dead
By: / Beginner
Post # 14
Terribly sorry for your loss, and it has been said enough in this thread that you can't bring back the dead. The thing is that they never leave. They can stay alive in our hearts and our minds. Keep her alive in this fashion and it won't be so unbearable. Blessed Be.
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