dream help

well... i wouldnt expect less :P think, exactly what scared you, was it the fire? her words? or her existence?
hospitals are tied with pain... whether it is from injury or death. white is a symbol of purity. yet your in a hospital. so it makes sense, why your mind would tie the two. fire, assuming you mean great big fire, bond fire, or out of control, means distruction. if your mind told you death, it means death is an important factor. (im basimg this off of most people in the western culture which im assuming you are. do any of these have a possible double meaning?)

I was scared of her and what she said people died and burned she also had a menacing smirk when she spoke

Hi, if you want truly understand your dream - analyze your real life: for example - if you have done something wrong or hurt someone, then this dream means that you will pay for your actions; and so on.
Sometimes dreams are just nightmares - if you watched some freaky scary movie like Ring, then this is normal ;)

But it is a bit out of logic - "I die with your soul", she means that she will continue to live and follow you till the end. I would interpretate that it is not a warning or bad meaning, it is more like a promise - maybe you are keeping a secret (the secret itself could be big and bad).

That makes sense

You interpret what it means towards you.

I was starting to think it meant when i die my soul dies it goes no where like it becomes nothing

Well when you die something has to happen to your spiritual self. Or your soul.

I just hope it goes somewhere good and not disappears to nothing

At first I thought that too, but I personally never heard that soul could die - many teachings refer to soul as immortal, only some talk about reincarnation and others don't.
Maybe shy used that expression "die with your soul" to emphasize that IT IS FOREVER, because soul will never die.

To be honest ive always felt like my animal spirit was its own entity connected to my body and sharing my mind