Don't think like that. You do seem to mean well, I understand that. You just need to keep trying either with that guy, or someone else entirely. Look into your heart and you'll know what to do. If he comes around, he comes around. If he doesn't, try with someone else. Just don't do it with a love spell. If anything try finding a way to boost your confidence or luck.
so, you are not really suggesting a love spell to bring an ex back...why on earth then, that there are so many other sites, even psychic lines offering to have this done? why cant we have an ex back if we feel so strongly for them. sure they don't feel as strong as the same as we do, that is why we are resorting to this kind of magic (to bring an x back). it is the same analogy as wanting to have a nice career or to having a nice job. why can't we ask for something that we really like, and that we are rest assured knowing, that no matter what, it can happen? sure, I have had doubts, but where else can I resort to? I need love, and yes, I want those moments when I was w my ex, and I want to relive those things, I just wish my ex is loyal and faithful and honest. so why cant we pursue that; we want to be w him, as we may have liked how things were, there maybe some minor/major issues, but they are just that, issues! and am sure,the love is still there.............
If anything try finding a way to boost your confidence or luck.
@AOSRF? oh, so you don't really recommend that kind of spell to get the ex back, but instead asked her to 'find a way to boost her confidence or luck". Whew, are you implying that wanting an ex back and resorting to this magic is sort of 'demeaning and only ppl w low self esteem are prone to this? I think it is the sneaky way to getting what u want without being obvious, and yes, some people are doing it, so what makes us the exception. I am also somebody who wants an ex back, I liked how we were. he had a change of heart. I did not like that. so am I being selfish? I have been w other ppl, and yet, I am not as happy as when I am w him. can someone blame me then for wanting to be with him? any one can say, he no longer share that same feeling! but do I care really? all I care about now is my sanity. I want him to love me and only me, just like how it was. and yes, I want him to be with me, to want me, to need me, to love me, to desire me and only me. call it how you may, but when desperation hits you, you only know what you know....it's what you are longing for, it is what the heart wants :)
I agree with almost all of what Ms.Murder said, except for the part where she claimed that Magick does not interfere with freewill. Wrong. VERY wrong, unfortunately. If only that were a true statement... Anyway, yes, Magick does in fact tamper with freewill, granted that is the intent of the Witch to do so. And even in the slightest, most inadvertent of ways as well, i.e. doing a spell to make someone happy. Obviously it alters the attitude of the subject, but not always for the best reasons. It could be that the subject needs to feel this way for whatever reason and by casting this happiness charm you alter their attitude and thus their whole current outlook, which is altering their freewill to feel unhappy at the time. See where I'm going with this? No? Oh well, on to your actual question! I would strongly advise you NOT to cast any spells to reobtain your lover solely for the reason being that of 1. freewill, and 2. he left your life for a reason and casting a spell to get him back would be trying to alter the natural order of things. It happened for a reason, so let it be as it is. You cannot change that. You WILL suffer cosmic, Karmic consequences if you go forth with this. Be very weary...
Look I am not saying it's being selfish at all. I am simply saying that love spells are not a way to go. I have seen people try that to solve their problems, some of which even succeeded, but all it ever did was give them more heartbreak. As for my talk about increasing confidence and luck, I didn't say a spell for it. I merely implied that the reason her practical approaches probably didn't work because while she does want her relationship to work, deep down she fears it's gonna fail. That kind of self doubt even if she didn't know it often interferes with anything from practical and mystical approaches and would probably be a factor in the spell backfiring.
@curlytops, finally someone who can understand how I feel! It's not easy to move on to someone else when you care so deeply for that one person. Yes, we may sometimes attempt dating just to temporarily ease the pain, but from experience that never works because basicly, the heart wants what the heart wants. I am new to this but it seems like most of the spells, whether it be a money spell, good luck spell, or love spell...they all are actually changing the natural order of how things are supposed to go...so now I'm wondering if Ido a spell to bring me good luck on my job interview on Monday, will that backfire too??
I appreciate everyones feedback, I am just gonna give this some more thought. Maybe learn a little more about Magick then maybe I won't have that doubt, I think that although I know magick is real, I still have some doubt because I haven't seen any results. Well actually I have, I think, I have been using an oil to bring me good luck in finding a new job, and I did get called for an interview. I don't know if that was the oil, or just my own luck, but right now I'm giving credit to the oil and continueing to use it for an even better paying position, lol.
Be careful doing a lot of spells and/or rituals can give u really bad karma!
I did and I got who I wanted then he started to have a pattern effect, one day he loved me the next hated me
