Please help id a spirit

She gets a "comforting" feeling when it comes, and usually falls asleep. He has appeared in my dreams and used to be in hers.

Too be honest with you, It would of been better if you worded it out better.

If it's a demon, just banish it. If she's scared the more its going to be attached to her ( if its not already attached). Their are many banishment rituals on this site.


Hope you resolve what ever is happening to your friend.

Thank you all so much. Because of the great advice you have given, she and I can finally find if he is evil and terrifying, or just good and scary. I will post the answer within a week and a half. We have narrowed it down a lot thanks to all of you. Until we have the answer, may you all live long and prosper.

Why you guys do not ask the spiritual being ,about its nature?
We can only speculate here about its nature and reasons.
It might be even a thought form,she has created to help her to cope with all the challenges in her life since she had to be on her own for long time.It might be also something that has been created long ago as such thought form.
I think it is wrong to try to banish the being ,without getting to the bottom of the whole story.
The three forms state of being baffles me a lot,because there must be something that triggers this change and I do not think so this is happening randomly.
Just keep in mind that spiritual beings can lie too,and they might not tell you the truth just because you asked.
She must be connected in some way in this being ,from what I read above.She should relay on her gut feeling about how truthful is all it says or does.
You guys have to look through a lot.
I am also curious if you can see it too (with your mind's eye),or is it only she that sees it.This might provide some more clues for us to brainstorm upon further.
Jinns are made of smokeless fire ,and it is believed that they can assume the form of an animal.
It is good idea also if you do a research on the mythological being called Kitsune.
I am just giving you few ideas to research upon with your friend, as I mentioned we can only speculate what exactly it is ,because we do not have any sort of interaction with this being.

Don't banish it unless you know it's evil. It might be trying to help her.

It does help her. I have seen him fighting off... things. Bad things. I don't know how to describe them. They are shadows. She thinks he might be able to cure an almost uncurable curse that runs in her family. I know little about it. I just know it is bad. I don't think it is telling the truth. I think it wants to harm her in the end. I just know it is bad. I just need proof that it needs to go. It has threatened me before, and only restrains itself because she makes it. It is male. I can tell that much. I can't act purely based on suspicion and instinct. I quite honestly hate it. It is either bad, or is just insensitive. I don't think it is a form of demon. It isn't a spirit animal. It has made a link to her, and uses the link to her to get to my link to her like a network, and torments me. It occasionally appears in my dreams, though usually have to look for it. I know that he isn't a coping mechanism. I have seen him myself. He is always either something of beauty, or of horror. I am on the verge of a solid answer. I just need to finish this puzzle. You all are helping a whole lot, and I really appreciate it. I will be back with more information as it comes. Live long and prosper.

Ask anther spirit to ID it, get opinions from several different kinds of spirits.

I have a theory it might be something that feeds on fear and paranoia in a way that your friend doesn't feel it anymore the reason it may look scary/creepy is because the fear it feeds on. It may be a “companion" because it has grown attached to your friend, it was created to aid your friend, or it sticks around because its in it for the free food. If this is correct, it may go through another form

I have a theory it might be something that feeds on fear and paranoia in a way that your friend doesn't feel it anymore the reason it may look scary/creepy is because the fear it feeds on. It may be a “companion" because it has grown attached to your friend, it was created to aid your friend, or it sticks around because its in it for the free food. If this is correct, it may go through another form

I have a theory it might be something that feeds on fear and paranoia in a way that your friend doesn't feel it anymore the reason it may look scary/creepy is because the fear it feeds on. It may be a “companion" because it has grown attached to your friend, it was created to aid your friend, or it sticks around because its in it for the free food. If this is correct, it may go through another form