Confusion

A few years ago my boyfriend, James, died. I got over the grief eventually, but his memory still stays with me all the time. I recently found out this boy fancies me, but James' memory is clouding my own feelings towards him and making me confused. I need a spell to lift this confusion enough to find myself and know the truth, but I don't want to lose James' memory.
Any help would be heartily appreciated.

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I suggest meditation. I don't think a spell would be good for this particular situation.

I have a "putting old memories to rest" spell. If you want it, when I get off work tonight, I will look it up in my BOS for you.

medatoin is the best and if you pray to a god or goddess ask him or her for help

Thank you. It has helped a lot.

What you don't want to do is anything that might make you forget the way that James made you feel.
You still care about him, and you probably always will. What you are feeling now is guilt because you are considering being with someone else. Maybe you are worried that James won't be able to forgive you, or that if you move on it's like forgetting that he ever existed.
It's not. If he loved you, he would want you to be happy. You won't forget about him, you just need to realize that your happiness does not mean the end of James.
It is always hard to lose someone. People deal with it in different ways. Just because the initial grief has passed, does not mean that it is no longer affecting you.