Hello. I am in a fairly abusive situation, and I'd like it to stop. I'm going to find outside help as soon as possible (tomorrow or the next day), but just a little extra boost would probably help.
I'd just like to add that while most of my spells work pretty well, I cannot do any magick while I'm around the abusive persuns. I just can't. It really sucks. I'm also not that powerful as of yet, so I can't levitate a fork into their eyes, or curse them with raging genital warts (trust me, I've tried).
Just some more details if this helps: I don't really get on well with Wicca, but I find that I'm okay with "High" magick. The abusers are my parents, so I can't really just leave, hence the necessity of a spell in addition to outside help. Any assistance is greatly appreciated.
Oh, my parents don't know I practice magick. They just like to "keep my in line". I don't deserve this treatment I've been dealing with for my whole life.
So I kind of need a spell just so that they stop trying to make me feel like crap. It's pretty damn hard to practice magick while they are around, I guess I just get scared and put up too many barriers, so hopefully a spell that doesn't require them to be around will be suggested.
I have a protection charm that I can give you. Perhaps it will aid you until you find the help that you truly need. If you wish mail me and I can send it to you.
Understand that all parents are concerned with their sons and daughters, they do not wish them to enter the side of the devil that is why they prohibit them from doing Spell Casting... If your parents abuse you in any other besides you people doing spells and magic, Learn that you have the right to defend yourselves against there threat... If you show them weakness the more they would abuse you but if you show them that you are as wise and quick as they are, they would stand defeated!!
I have also been in your situation but as you grow up you would learn why they do things the bad way....
If your parent is drug addict, I suggest you tell the Police Department... If and only they abuse you because of their unstoppable drug interaction...
But understand all of this happenings in ones life is a Test of Ones Capacity and Determination... Learn from it!!
Since this is a magic website and not a social services website, here are some magical suggestions. Of course take action in the physical world like you said you would, but that's enough of an admonition.
There is a whole hierarchy of things you can do to try to improve your situation, magically speaking, ranging from "Harm None" to "Destroy Your Enemies." Pick and choose as you see fit.
1) Start Peaceful Home work. This is a family of spells and workings which usually include spiritual house cleansings coupled with candlework and other spellwork that enhances harmony in a house setting. This is nice, high vibrational work that many find helpful, but it's usually used in unpleasant circumstances like marital arguments - not where safety and abuse is at issue. Still, it's the least restrictive Step 1, and you might want to try some Peaceful Home work in conjunction with something stronger. Google "Peaceful Home" and look for Lucky Mojo webpages.
2) Put your parents in a honey jar to sweeten them up. Google "honey jar spell" and look for Lucky Mojo webpages.
3) Erect some sort of hardcore personal protection. This is a super varied topic, ranging from energetic wards and shields, petitioning Diety, altar work, amulets, talismans, mojo bags, spiritual baths, personal sigils, rituals, and candlework. Personally, i love Fiery Wall of Protection spells. Google them and you'll find one or two.
4) Do work to redirect your abusers' actions back to them. This is called reversing work, and even some people with a Harm None restriction can be comfortable with this type of coercive spellwork - depending on how "justified" the situation is. I like reversing work because the target is in charge of their own experience - they project out hate and pain and they get it reflected back to them. They project out sunshine and light and they get sweetness back. Reversing work is usually done with reversing candles and herbs and lots of mirror work. Again, the Lucky Mojo website is your friend.
5) Do spellwork to bind and restrict the abusers. Key words are binding spells or freezer spells. There are a lot to choose from including knot spells and spells with doll babies. I don't know how much opportunity you have to get and work with occult supplies, but i really like human figure candles for this kind of work. You can get a male and female candles to stand in for your abusers and really go to town - much simpler than sewing doll babies.
6) Destroy your enemies. It's an option for sure. Whenever people come to me asking about death spells i ask them if they are comfortable with murder. Granted, they're unlikely to go to jail for a successful death spell, but the intent is exactly the same. I know you haven't asked for this, so i just add it for the sake of being complete.
I hope this helps, and best of luck. Remember, the Universe gives you the *exact* parents you need in life, even if it seems like the greatest injustice. Later on you may look back and see exactly why you were chosen for this unfortunate set of circumstances. Bless you in your journey.
Thank you for all your help. I've done a few spells to make them calm and to stay away from me, which have worked very well. We are going to get help and all that very soon.
Again, I really appriciate the effort and time you took to reply. Thank you.
