I'm 13 and my mother and I have been having fights over pants. She has admitted me to the hospital, called the police, and is threatening to send me to court for this. I have done nothing wrong, my mother can't live without power and she is losing her grip on me so she is creating this mess. It keeps getting worse and worse so I any of you have any spells or suggestions that could end this or see her for who she really is that would be great.
What exactly is the problem with your pants? Being a mother of 2 I can understand where your mother is coming from if she thinks your pants are not appropriate. If they are to small/tight, to big/baggy, your underwear is sticking out of them, they have too many holes, they are stained, or they have something inappropriate written on them. As a mother and you being only 13, she has every right to tell you that you can or can't wear a piece of clothing. Perhaps it is time that you grow up a bit and be the age you are. By now you should understand that you are a teenager and with that comes more responsibility but not total freedom to do, wear, and say whatever you want.
I agree, I'm 13 too but I'm very mature for my age because I've had very big responsibilities from a young age which is worse than a pants argument. But I dont understand why she'd get the police involved.
I am also a parent. I am a single mother of two daughters, and I cannot understand why she would admit you into a hospital, called the police and threaten to send a 13 year old to court over a pair of pants.
There will always be a power struggle between teenagers and parents, especially around your age when you feel like you need more independence, and your mother still sees you as an adorable little child. This should be the time for discussion and conversation, maybe going over the rules of the home and showing your mom that you can handle more responsibility of your own.
Resorting to magick spells for something that you may be able to handle on your own between the two of you is going to the extreme.
Is your father in the picture? How does he feel about all of this?
While you may think it's about pants, odds are it's not. The pants were probably the last resort in a string of other issues that you either don't see as an issue, or don't want to admit is an issue. Unless of course you stole the pants/money to buy the pants in which case, yes. That is the issue.
Simple fact: You're 13. Your mother does have control over you, has every right to call the police on you if you are breaking laws or are out of control and has every right to admit you to a hospital if she is worried about your mental health.
There's a solution to the tyranny. Move out on your own, get a job, pay your own bills and live life the way you want to. Since you can't do any of the above, you are dependent on her and need to accept that. You are not an adult. You are not recognized as an adult, do not have the same rights as an adult, and if you insist on be treated like one anyway...you need to act like one.
pwalls (sorry if I spelled it wrong, going off memory here)- I suspect from the way this is written, dad isn't around. That's probably a contributing factor to the issue.
To everyone who keeps up about the pants, I think what he was saying was that his mom made that issue up, he never really did anything, at least not fighting over pants. In short you were all adressing a problem that never existed in the first place, and completely failed to help 1 bit.
Ps nightflight, you may have actually gotten it, good for you
