What is YOUR opinion on love spells? Love spells are one of the most requested (besides money) in the pagan genre of spirituality.
So I'm curious to see what you all think. What do you think? :)
I believe in love spells on a specific person are wrong, because you could draw them away from there soul mate. But a spell to make you more noticeable to the one you love is harmless and it dosent take free will.
This is a good question, I think that love spells are risky, and unnecessary. The aura can be used just as easily, and to a better effect. Love spells have some, *eh'hem*, negative side effects when done improperly or carelessly, as I told the person in the "Was it a lovespell?" thread, they can backfire, causing you to love your intended even more than you already do (worstcase, to the point of obsession), and at the same time offer littleno effect on the intended's mindset towards you! My advice and opinion is also:know the rules of the game, before you play (to all of you more critical persons out their, pleasenote that I am in know waysaying that magick [etc.] is a game, it was a simple analogy.).
Re: Love Spells. Opinions? By: conjuredoc / Novice
Post # 4 May 02, 2011
It depends on what path you follow, some people talk about free will & karma, where personally I believe you can't just manufacture love from nothing and there needs to be something there for you to manipulate.
I don't believe love spells work. Though they give people more hope that the one they cast it on will like them which in turn makes them more assertive about asking the person out... And sometimes this works and the person believes it was the spell (:
This is just my thought on them.. I do not think love can be cast, no matter how strong you believe yourself to be.
As for using auras...
Changing someone's mood and changing someone's emotions/feelings is very different.
Let me preface this by saying I dont cast love spells.
But I do not think it is wrong to do so, i dont believe there will be a karmic backlash, nor will they become a zombie, it will simply help the love the person might have the capacity to feel for you, grow, or provide you an opportunity for them to fall in love with you.
the concept of love spells being bad came about because of the new-age movement, thats where all the folklore of love spells gone wrong originated from.
and as far as freewill is concerned, free will is not so cut and dry as most people tend to think. if you cast a spell to get a specific job, it could be considered wrong by the same logic that love spells are wrong, because you might be taking away the bosses free will away to an extent.
overall, its not something to trifle with, but its not inherently bad either
Re: Love Spells. Opinions? By: conjuredoc / Novice
Post # 8 May 04, 2011
Demosthenes is 100% correct, the majority of spells affect free will, its only the love spells that get the bad press.
What people forget to understand is that spells aren't a 1 fits all remedy, you can't cast a love spell on someone and expect it to work because what if they aren't attracted, or are already in a relationship.
My advice would be for an attraction spell to be cast a few days before a love spell is cast, that way they will notice you and fall for you, making it seem more logical. Love cannot manifest from nothing, I've tried and failed in the past, all it did was make this woman wonder why she loved me because she wasn't attracted to me, so she put the feeling down to loving me as a person.
There is a simple way to get a girl, go and ask her out. Honestly we like being asked out, because it shows you want us, and have guts to do something about it.
See if she says yes yay, if she says no...apparently she doesnt like you that way. So why push it? If you think she likes you just become closer with the person until she develops feelings for you. No spell will make someone love you. If they don't see you in that way, then they don't.
Honestly if you want to be with someone, try being with someone who wants to be with you also. Otherwise what is the point?
I guarantee you 100% no spell will force someone to love you. Ever. What will get someone to want you this way? You.
You are the reason a person falls for you or doesn't, not a spell. If you want any help with how to get a conversation started with the person...or advise.. message me i'll give ya some advise.. but trust me, love spells are false, they may give you a confidence.. but that is all.
Attraction spells are the same. Though, attraction can easily be fixed with a makeover...Or find a decent girl who is attracted to what's on the inside more.
I've dated guys who didn't look the best at first...trust me though if you date a girl she WILL help you with your physical looks lol, it's what we do. Make our men/women look how we want them XD