Marriage problem...

Hi, i need help. Me and my boyfriend wants to get married but our parents are not agreeing the main problem is our caste and 2nd is big age difference he is 11 years elder to me.. please someone help.. i love my parents and him too and i want both.. PLEASE HELP!!

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in matters of the heart. Parents never really know my advice is follow your heart if you parents can't get over it then its them and not you.

Caste?

Dear...

"Parents never really know"? I would suggest that your parents might know better than you think, and that their judgement is not clouded by lust. I expect they want the best for you. If you feel the sme way when you are an independant adult, there will be no one to stop you going head anyway. I think you should pay some attention to the council of your parents, they have more overview and experience than you do. You say that he is 11 years older than you, but not how old you are yourself. Sometimes when we are young and in love, we are oblivious to the notion that we may be being taken advantage of. I wish you well.

Your parents just loves you and they want the best for you.Remember its your life,your ways.If they really love you they would.I think they will accept it as time grows on.I hope you and your parents get this worked out.

Bless be-grg

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Well, maybe you should talk to you're parents and ask them why they don't approve. They may know something about the guy you like that you don't and they are afraid to tell you because you might react bad, or something. Just try and get they're opinion and maybe you can make a decision that works for both of you.

thanks everyone.. but not only my parents but his parents too have problems.. i dont want to loose him and neither my parents i know him well we are working together for quite some years and i know everything about his past and present..

Well, you probably won't lose your parents, most parent's love you no matter what. They haven't said something like, if you marry this guy, we'll never talk to you again, have they? If not, you're probably fine. They probably don't like his parents and they're going to miss you once you go off and get married. The other possibility, is that his parents don't like you, and your parents are mad about that and don't want you to be miserable for the rest of your life. I the post was very short and iffy because of the description so, I really hope this helps.

tell them iteher accept it or dont even show up at all. then leave the room