I have a long term relation with a girl.
But recently she misunderstood me, not trusting me anymore by thinking that I have another relation with a girl. But to be honest I have no other relations... :(
Please let me know how I can get my lover back to me..
Remain calm while talking to her, apologize for the misunderstanding, explain that there is nothing between you and any other girls out there, tell her how much you care about her and that you only care about her, offer to make up for the misunderstanding by taking her out for a romantic evening.
If she says no, ask if there's anything you can do to clear things up and see what she says.
Keep in mind that sometimes the best option is just to move on and not all things need to or should be solved by magic. However, if you are looking for a spell to solve your problems, I know there are several people on this site who have a good love spell or two. It's not Hollywood, she's not going to be head over heals for you just because you said some rhyming words or slipped her a pink juice, you will still have some work to do and it is still possible to blow it. A spell just might give you the edge you need and open her mind up to giving you another chance.
the proble with love spells is not that they dont work is that they do. i know someone that did a love spell to make sure here hubsan will aways love here will it turn out she found out she was gay living with her batter half and he still loves her to this do*you just have to love hododoo done well lol* any way i do suggest you dont use magic and work nout thing the old fashion way try me its that best wasy to go about it hun
Re: Need HELP 2 GetBack Lover By: Birdlover101 / Beginner
Post # 6 Nov 11, 2011
If she thinks your cheating on her, assure her you're not and tell her that your not in a relationship with anyone but her. Ask her, in a polite tone, why she thinks that your cheating. Then, reply to her question politely and as honestly as you possibly can. Don't turn to spells if you can't fix this. If you truly love her, let her go so that she can be happy.
Not to be privy but as i understand it you to have been long term lovers correct? Well if so then something of this magnitude should be trivial why you ask well it simple shouldn't you know each other? what it sounds more like is that your lover may have guilt of some kind involving trust maybe there's a factor that your missing maybe she is being so misunderstanding as to the fact that her guilt is getting to her and now she feel that she has a reason to act the way she's acting maybe she has been unfaithful herself and is using this to make her anger rush spite you to a certain fashion as to relieve some tension built up inside of her about her own issue in the matter and to be frank you may want to check if she has been unfaithful herself. Guilt has its way of bottling up and has its way of unleashing its self as to where the person with the bottle doesn't feel bad about it instead puts her/his feelings on another to act as there own vessel of their burden and to relieve all that stress that comes with. I suggest if i may be so bold and not rude to say that you two sit down and have a long discussion about yourselves and to come to an agreement before you talk that what you say might be hurtful and might cause pain but the truth should be said either way and with that truth will come much needed relief and healing on both sides which will be the result if you can both get over and forget the past of your errors and learn to fully love one other to the fullest again and with that you'll create a newly wielded bond that will be much more strong than ever before. :) any questions feel free to add me or mail me :) Just trying to help and give needed advice I hope everything works well :)
Thank you soooooo much everyone for your valuable reply.
Let me answer all of you 1 by 1..
Hakuro: Thanks frnd for your opinion.
Main problem is she is not talking, not even replying my sms/emails. Not picking my phone calls. But I keep sending her mails to convince her.
shadewolf89, Waya_Adanvdo : I'm trying bro, but she is not responding
Zebrah: Thanks!
Birdlover101: I just want to prove that I really love her, after that if she wants to go, I have no prob :(
DevinMarston: Thank you so much for your long opinion! Really, I want to seat with her, want to show proves that I really love her, care her, miss her... But she is not responding. I was out of the country for a year..n she stopped communicating me when I was abroad. I told her thousand times please meet, lets seat & discuss about it, but she is not replying anymore though I know she is reading my emails/sms....
She broke uo because she is insecure. Your either a big flirt or she doesnt see herself very well. You have to let her you know she is beautiful and special everyday. It seems like a ton of work but if you love her it wont feel like it.
There is the possibilie she just wanted to break up for another guy. Im not betting on it though.
Seranade her a song, make her a song just make her feal like she is the only girl in the world.
If all fails perform a love spell and live in a relationship were the love is mosly fake.
Love is there just rekindle it!
Good luck Blessed Be!
