I want to be Emotionless.

I have just ended the fourth relationship in a row after being cheated on. I am sick of humans in general, as they are completely untrustworthy as a race. Is there any spell that will render me so that I have no emotion nor desire to form any sort of bond? I have thought it through, and no feeling a all would be better than endless betrayal.

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there are many ways of not trying to feel emotions, but casting a spell for this would not be the answer. Everyone deals with different kinds of emotions everyday. Sometimes you just need to look outside on in (:

No emotion is a bad thing better to talk it out with friends and work it out. Its not the end of the world trust me I know.

No emotion you say? Well that's outrageous, without emotions, the world will change completely. You're be very dull, and so would the world around you. You won't feel excited, and never will be happy. You may never get out of bed, never see anything as normal, the world will be simply black and white for you, and you might even die. How? You will not feel hungry, nor feel like you're drowning. Life has to have emotions or it could cause a huge change in your life, for the worst. I would suggest finding a non-magical way to solve your problems first because if you think magic comes first, you might cause chaos...

Those who don't feel emotions are those most likely to commit betrayals. Ridding yourself of emotions would likely result in an emotionless shell of a person with no consideration for anything or anyone, or to be precise would turn you into that which you despise. Emotions don't just consist of desires but things such as compassion.

We are beings that experience emotion. You should learn from your experience, grow and move through the stages of grief. Then, you will be stronger and able to have a better relationship in the future.

That's like saying because I despise having allergies in the summertime I'm just going to have my sinuses removed. I understand you're upset right now but the problem isn't your emotions but your psychology. You need to ask yourself why you are choosing people who cheat. Yes! You are subconsciously picking people with the same personality type, and those traits are that of a "player" or otherwise unfaithful individual. Once you conquer that within yourself and begin choosing partners that don't have that same character, you'll be fine. If you have trouble seeing this within yourself, this is one thing a regular couselor can help you with, one who specializes in relationships.

This is not something for magick, seriously, if you want to stop this cycle, you need to realize why you choose these people (start with what they all have in common and who that relates to in your life--particularly during your childhood). Once you figure this out you need to break the cycle and find someone who you would normally never find as your type. For instance, if you like the vain athletic ones, go for a geek even if they don't attract you. Break your own cycle and test other waters.

k, i'm going to quote Daria for a minute:

'It is better to of loved and lost, then never loved at all' just what is Lord Tennyson talking about?
Daria: He's acknowledging that if something makes you feel good, like, being in love, there must be a corresponding painful side like loosing at love. It's just a fact of life... He's a realist. He says emotional involvement can bring pleasure AND extraordinary pain. Then he declares it's still better than never feeling anything at all.

so, my point, while i see your point. after my ex left me for my close friends girlfriend, i looked into that myself, but i ended up realizing it wasn't worth it over that jerk. [few days later my boyfriend of 2 years and counting asked me out]

it is your life, and i doubt you could permanently do anything, you can look into suppressing your emotions through meditation coupled with a couple chants i found, but i doubt it's a 100% working thing, and i also know you shouldn't because doing so would result in you not caring about friends, family, pets, perhaps even work, you wouldn't find anything sad, but you wouldn't get mad or happy, getting rid of all emotions and bonds would renter you a living doll, blanking going from place to place. try taking some time off and working on you and the people in your life who have always been there. i still say relationships are overrated, and they'll happen when they happen. [though i do agree with your human race comment lol, though they're not all bad, most, but not all.]