to bring him back

i have been in an affair with a very unhappy married man for a year and a half... he has recently been going through some issues with work and with his home life... thus pulling away from me... he has told me he loves me and i am his everything, spending all his free time with me.... so does anyone have any ideas on what i should do to bring him back to me ???? he has already told the wife he does not want to be with her and that their marriage is over but for sake of money and credit issues is the reason neither of them will leave the other.... they are sleeping in seperate rooms and beds...Help please....

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If your friend and his wife are on good terms with each other then there shouldn't be a problem. Even though the marriage is over they don't have suffer living with each other just because of the finances. My ex and I are permanently separated but we stay legally married for tax and equity purposes. She has a boyfriend, her own house and I have a girlfriend, and my own house. We even have children together and it's all copacetic. It's all good, friendly, open and honest. Communication is the key. Talk about it. Take action.

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