Want to be cold hearted?

Im tired of being an empath.. People hurt me but i still forgive them because i feel bad. Is there a way to not care no more to be cold hearted ? Just like empath but opposite

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Sometimes it is downright awful. I know. I went through a divorce as an empath. It was horrible. But you don't just want to give up on a gift. Its a part of you and I know you worked hard to get to that point. Even though it just kind of came to you like everything else, it still took intent and to give it up now would be like creating a part of yourself, then cutting it off. If anything, just find a way to rein it in. There are meditations you can do to bring your energies in. I have a spell pouch I made to create a bubble around me holding my energies in so I am not picking up on everyone. I work at WalMart and if I did not control my abilities, I would be a wreck. So please, before you go and do something you might regret, see if you can find a way to just control it.

I'm not really sure you want to take such an extreme leap.

I'm one, too...an empath that is. And it gets frustrating when it seems you're the only one who cares! Just try and control it, like advised. It is hard to do, but just balance yourself. Do and feel for others, but never to your own detriment!

I'll warn you, with such a jump from being a complete empath to doing all emotion, you may less yourself down a much less intended road. Turning yourself "cold hearted" (so to speak) will make others avoid you, may lead to a depression, or worse, suicide. My suggestion, look in to control over your empathy. Instead of tuning out all emotion, just try tuning out external negatives (negative feelings that aren't yours).

just train urself to shut off ur emotions and be blank thats wat i do, and now i can barely feel anyone even if i tried, just unattached and dont care in a sense


me and my loner self XD

you need to think about all the terrible things they are doing to you
its clear that you need to be in a dark room with no light .
after you think all these terrible things they have did to you
you need to look on the wall .
see al the darkness in the wall getting in to you .
and then you are cold hearted

I'm not an empath but I dealt with the same things you are. With someone almost 10 years, and still able to see everything that they do when you are separated is the worst thing in the world. I cannot sleep without seeing what will happen to them, or feel how they feel when they are in trouble or hurt. I been to the point of wanting to lose my "sight" or whatever you call it to avoid dealing with everything. However, I see (and you feel) things for a reason. Find a way to control it or deal with it.

My suggestion isnt magical at all. Just meditate and ground yourself. It has helped me alot.

magic is always an option but it cant be the right option .
and you need to remember magic works from your feelings and yor faith in him .
but if you let the darknes come in you need ro know she might never come out