Controlling mother Spell

There's this guy I really like, but we really don't get to see each other because of how controlling his mother is. Is there a spell I can do to loosen the grip she has on him?

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This isn't the first time I've told someone"magick may not be the most appropriate solution the situation that troubles you". Don't be disappointed when I say that you should tell him to talk to his mom about being more of an independatn person. Also, how old is he, since there is a dating difference between 12 and 15 year olds.

*independant

CaptainTycho has a point, how old is he? in my family there's a rule [goes way back] you don't date until you're 16. myself i had no problem with it, and i like that rule, i think you're too young and immature before that time. even though you can still make mistakes at 16, you're old enough to understand better than if you were 12, or 14.

anyway, off my soap box, talk to his mother, just be his friend, get to know her, then she might 'loosen her grip' as you put it. just don't be manipulative, good chance she'll see through it.

since you asked magickally if there's a solution, i would go for a spell to get his mother to like you more so she would let him date. but again, i don't recommend it at all, especially since i don't know how old he is, it's far more understandable not letting her 13 year old date over her 30 year old, but either way you're forcing your will on another, and no good comes from that.

I wouldn't use magick to force her to loosen her grip. This kind of spell would need constant upkeep as she fought it and it would zap a great deal of energy. Instead, I suggest you meditate, focusing on his mother. Connect with her and find why and what she feels to make the decisions she makes. Once you can understand her, you can be more persuasive in alleviating her concerns. Perhaps you can find an actual spell that puts you in her shoes if you struggle to do it though meditation. Don't be afraid to compromise as force is the hardest path for it requires the most amount of change in energy.

I wouldn't recommend you to do that bcz forcing love comes with a price.Can I ask are you the same age or are you older than him think about it and if it doesn't bother you,I would advise you to have more connection with the mother and thats where you will gain her trust but DON'T FORCE.

Be very careful when it comes to trying control someone's personal free will. Look it is 'his' Mother. She might have reasons for her 'grip'. Most Mother's do when it comes to their sons. Even women who are married have at many instances - problems with their Mother-in-Laws...being controlling throughout their marriages. Mostly, it is because they love their son's so much they are OVERLY protective. Mother's are that way with their daughters too. Most of the time even more so. My Mother is still like that with me...I know it is because she loves me so much and does not want ANYONE to hurt me in any form or fashion.

Did you try to become friendly with his Mother? Did you reach out to her in a 'respectful way'? Did her son (the one you are interested in) tell you the reason or reason why she has some form of hostility toward you? How old are you? Do most people consider you to be a 'nice' young lady or are you at times not so 'nice'? Sometimes people gossip about young men and young women are sort of 'not so nice'. You have to try to understand her point of view...she is Mother. Out of respect whatever you do - DO NOT TRY TO CONTROL HER NATURAL WILL...I am telling you from experience...if whatever you do...could backfire horribly...because your intentions are negative. If you try something try a spell that removes YOUR ANGER toward his Mother. You could do a spell and the person you are interested in...turns their back and heart against you. I would be very careful when it comes to putting a spell on someone's Mother. It is not right in the laws of 3's.

Perhaps you could find a guy who was mature enough not to be tied to his mothers apron strings...sorry for the outdated expression. That being said, most guys are "mamas boys", best to get used to dealing with mom. You can always work to show her that you are a positive influence on her son, that you are good to him and make him happy. Be pleasant and display good manners around her. Dont cause or stir up drama. Be the type of person you would want in your own life...be kind and generous and supportive, avoid those behaviors that give a bad impression.