Hi...I'm new to this and searched for spells and found 2 to help me guide my ex back. We did not have a fight but he is in a situation that involved breaking up. I found this spell to make him think of me (for beginners) and just followed the instructions not knowing I'm supposed to cast a circle before that. But it worked. The next day he called me up then e-mailed the day after.However, I found this lovespell to make someone miss you that needs you to chant the prayer spell every morning. Since I did that, I observed he didn't communicate with me. When I followed the spell here to reverse it, initially it worked. Then I made the mistake of saying it again and I have not heard from him. I would like to reverse the chant/2nd spell and leaving just the first one as it is. Any ideas? Should I reverse the 2nd spell first then recast the 1st spell all done in the proper way with casting a circle? Help please...
I forgot to tell you that this morning, I tried the reversal spell but made the mistake of using PERVERSE and not PERVERT so I tried doing it 2 more times. Now I'm confused...
You could always try to start from scratch. This is something I wrote up yesterday to undo a spell and it worked for me.
For more effect a candle needs to be involved that you can break into pieces once the spell has been cast. I didn't have one lying around and just used a white candle and blew it out once I was done.
What has been done is done,
I now undo what has been done,
This spell I now negate,
Return things to their rightful state!
Try that and maybe give it a day before trying to cast anything else again.
Hi Xerces,
Thanks for your reply...
I tried to use UNDO A SPELL spell and about 3 hrs later, I got an e-mail from my ex. I am keeping my fingers crossed that this will work just to keep him thinking about me --- in the hope that he will find his way back to me with the least amount of influence.
From everything you've provided it only sounds like a band-aid. You may want to try to call him and see if you can sort things out? Communication is the key in any relationship. Failure to communicate clearly will always result in a breakdown of a relationship. The same goes for withholding info from one another even if in belief it's for the better good.
I analysed your spells and these are my suggestions:
the first spell is very badly written and it's dynamics are quite bad; if it worked for you it is only because of your focused will. However, I see it has indicator properties, so if it worked, that means that there is still some love left in this relationship. The second one is a domination spell by nature and is intrusive by energy dynamics. However, the second spell has an initial effect that acts as a banishing, because the mind of the target is trying to get rid of the intrusion. On the other hand, after a period of time, the energetic immunity gets accustomed to the energy of the spell and lets it in so the effects of the second spell should be visible long after it is cast; that's why the spell should be kept and repeated periodically.
Thank you for your advise. Our reason was not because of a misunderstanding..in a way. We still love each other. But he needs to address a situation where we both were manipulated into. That is why I only wanted to make him think of me and what we had...in the hope that he will soon find his way back to me. I'm afraid to use any spell beyond that as forcing him or his free will might as I am worried about the consequences. I just wanted to enhance or focus on what he already has to start with --- love.
I just need for him to make that emotion stronger that he would make a stand for us. He has a child from his ex that he loves dearly. We were manipulated into that situation that it's either being with the child and living with her or he loses the child permanently.
I don't know what else to do as I am afraid casting another spell might make it worse.
Thank you so much for the reply as I badly need to understand all these.
I read somewhere that upon casting a spell and it worked, that if you repeat it, it would negate or neutralize the first one. The first spell I've cast was the 1st spell (to make him miss me) and it only involved chanting the spell every morning. Then I followed it up with the 2nd spell to make him think of me. I did another spell to return a lover back but then I felt something was not right and immediately undid the spell. The next day, I got a phone call from him telling me he has been thinking of me all day. Then the next day, I made the mistake of chanting the spell to make him miss me but realized what I did so I tried to undo it. It took awhile but within 24 hrs. I got successive e-mails from him to the point of getting close again. Then yesterday, I woke up and made the mistake again ( I know...) and tried to undo it. This time, I mispronounced a word but had the same context or meaning --- pronounced perverse instead of pervert. Then I tried to undo that as well. Last night, I came across another spell to undo a spell. It has been about 24 hrs since he e-mailed then. 3 hrs after that, I got an e-mail from him again.
Yes, there is definitely still love in us as we broke up due to external factors that we were manipulated into.
Any suggestions that you think may be able to harness all that love in him to make a stand for us and bring him back to me? Like I have told Xerces, I do not want to manipulate his mind...only to cultivate what is already in there to begin with so he can make his way back to me.
...and to Xerces and Lightbarer,
I really thank you for the help...
Also I want to ask...maybe it's just me or maybe there's something else, I don't know how to express it but I think I can actually feel when the emotion or bond gets strong or weak as when I casted a spell, I felt some intense emotion within but when I did the mistake, I felt it weakened and when I undid the spell, I felt a strong emotion again.
Would you have an idea on what it is?
Hi Ethereally,
I saw your last post and thought i might give my opinion. I think that when two people truly love each other there is a powerful bond created between the two people. The mistake you did could have altered the way he felt for you and thus lead the the weakening of the bond. But when you undid your mistake the bond strengthen because his altered emotions returned to normal.
