Hello,
My ex and I have been rocky for the past week so I recently tried the"To Heal A Rift" spell to heal our relationship and a spell to remove our relationship obstacles. This is only my 3rd spell, I'm fairly new to spell casting. I felt I put a lot of energy and visualization into it, so I feel good about it. thing is my ex and I broke up officially yesterday.
I casted the first part of one spell 3 days ago or so and today I had a tarot reading, the reader said the relationship looked as if it was really over. Now my intention was to heal our issues and remove our problems not to take his free will. I know spells take a while to work, one of them is 2 parts, the second part takes place until the next full moon. Is it possible the work of the spell did not show in the reading because it has not been completed?
My ex bf is currently in another state, one of the problems I focused on was to remove the distance, remove the negative energy of misunderstanding and jealousy. In my reading it was asked if he would move here and the reverse chariot showed up...meaning the wheels are up in the air, or just a no.
What do you guys think? Any feedback or suggestions on a different spell would be greatly appreciated it!
Long distance relationships are hard. Really, really hard. You have to have two parties who are both on the same page, who both have a lot of trust and are willing to even bend that trust a little now and then. Two parties who adore each other, and most of all, you need to know that there's a date in the future where that gap will be bridged. Otherwise, you're very likely destined to fail.
Tarot readings can be accurate, but there are also a lot of different ways for the cards to be interpreted -- they are not an exact science, especially when you take into consideration the personal styles of different readers. Because while "the wheels are up in the air" is one interpretation, I would also look at it as simply as "loss of control" or that you don't have a firm grasp on the situation. Which makes sense, given that you're asking if the other party is going to relocate.
Give your work some time to manifest, but work on things on your end, too. Examine what went wrong in the relationship, come up with ideas to fix it. Figure out an end date for the distance, if you can.
Reversed chariot speaks to me of things being off balance. I would take it as a hint to look at what caused the split and see if there is anything you can do to get that balance back. Also, a spell to help make things work would most likely take more than three days to manifest. Try to put it out of mind if possible, and keep hopeful.
Hi.sorry to jump in on the thread,but has anyone had any success with heal a rift spell? Cos I'm thinking of trying it myself, my ex and I have been split for two years And unfortunately we're part of the same scene and go to the same party's which makes things uncomfortable cos instead of being an adult and civilised, he's being really nasty and making things really unbearable.
I've done similar spells before, but none of them had titles nor were they written down. The good side of them all were they all worked, but the time in which it happened never was on "my time". However, spells can do so much. I look at it as a gateway to someone's heart but if everything else isnt fixed prior or after the spell is worked then it is a waste of your energy.
Listen, magic can do so much but we are the ones who drive it and make it last. Your spell may work but why guide someone back to your side when things arent "right" from the beginning.
I suggest you try working on your relationship problems and not rely on spells because what is real love if you have to control it?
Unfortunately,atm I can't fix things face to face with my ex as that's just not possible. I've been chatting to someone new and am seeing where it leads but cos my ex and I are part of the same party scene,it's Making things really uncomfortable not only for me,but everyone else cos he's being nasty. Hence why I want to do the spell to soften his feelings towards me and to make things a bit more bearable.
I cannot give you advice with the tarot reading and the spell other than this: generally, if something fails so obviously, it simply means your path is winding elsewhere, and what you want is not necessarily what you need.
Besides this, I have practical advice and experience with long distance relationships. Ours has lasted almost 8 months and it is still strong; in fact, it is stronger than it used to be. Honesty, love, and gentle patience get us through the worst of things, which in reality, if you really love the person and he/she requites those feelings, the 'worst' won't be bad at all.
To put things into perspective. She is in Europe. I'm in the US.
It's my utmost certainty that if you cannot survive a couple months with your significant other being far away from you, it is merely a sign that you won't survive together, in person, either.
The distance certainly adds some strain to things, but if it's the reason that your relationship is failing, then simply move on--it won't work in person.
