Help Please! Desperate

I am new to this website and came seeking guidance, assistance and expertise. My husband and I are going through an awful time right now to the point where he has decided to end the marriage. He says that he no longer loves me; however, I believe this to not be the case. He feels hurt from me taking him for granted such that he had an affair, which I believe is continuing. I know the usual response is to say "just move on" but I cannot accept that because I know of the goodness inside of him. I truly believe that divorce is not the choice he wants to make, but it is rather the choice he feels he has to make...as if to prove something. We also have two small children (5 & 2). I am in search of a few spells: 
1. To make him fall back in love/for him to accept that he still loves me 
2. To end the affair completely 
3. For us to heal and regain trust in each other

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I don't think spells can help in a situation like this.It's hear-breaking, as I know very well from my own life.
There is a very old adage about this:
"If you love something, let it go.If it comes back then it was meant for you. If it does not come back, it was never yours in the first place."
Talking to each other is better than trying spells.

That's what I was afraid of. But I am still willing to try.

It sounds to me as if you're blaming yourself for his affair.

Don't.

Love is a two way street, it is not selfish or cruel. But it can be just as dangerous as hate.

I know you may not want to hear this, but it sounds that if you're trying to make it work, make it better, but he is still having an affair, then you're doing all the work, and that's not love.

My best recommendation is to simply sever ties with him. If he loves you, he'll come back. If not, well...

Again, that might not have been what you wanted to hear, and I apologize if my words upset you in any way. If you know the goodness in him, then you need to give it a chance to shine. If it doesn't, that's not your fault, but you can't make it shine, not even with magik. You cannot alter another's free will. and healing and regaining trust is a long process, even with magik. But that third one will be your best bet if you still want to use magik on this problem.

I can do some research and build you a spell, if you like.

I will take anything you can provide. Thank you!

Also, I feel I should clarify. ..my desire is not to interfere with his free will but rather to turn the tides in my favor.

You poor thing. It's always sad to see love end. But magic is usually not the way to go in this case. Give him some space and some time to think.

I have given him space...he has been staying elsewhere. His mind is made up and he is seeing at attorney in the next hour. I just want another chance, to be better, to do better. I would give anything for that opportunity. There has to be something? Anything?

I don't have much yet, but definitely try invoking Hera, as she is the Goddess of Marriage (among other things) in the Greek Mythos.

You need a "Desamarre Total" protection from a Botanica. I can give you one if you wish, for free. It's a candle. I'll light it in your honor, also I'm gonna light a "Regresa a mi/return to me" candle. This has helped me from time to time. It is guaranteed to work, it just takes a while to kick in. I'm a shaman from Mexico and study Cuban Santeria big time. Just send me a message with the ok and I will light it for you. No catch. No fee.