lost loves

Merry meet to all,
one of the most requested, and sought after help, seems to be people trying to reunite or bring back lost loves. I think virtually all of us understand the pain, sense of lose, disappointment and hurt that feels like. I myself was in this situation at one point, not long ago.
I would like to advice those seeking this help, to instead,turn your attention not to returning this person, but into getting past the situation. You are carrying a negative energy, focused on negativity, and that attracts more negativity. This, in turn brings further misfortune, more pain, and repels others who could possibly be the person who will love you, and make you happy.
Often this person caused you grief, infidelity, abused you in some way.
Please, instead, focus on attracting good luck, getting over your grief, and most of all, relaxing. when you are in such a state, you will only put of vibes of desperation, and unhappiness,and bring more pain to yourself. Happy people are attractive, and you will find new love.
Each and everyone of us deserves to be loved, treated with respect, and to find happiness and contentment.
I hope my words help someone.
Hamish Mcleod.

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Wonderful post. I could not have said it better myself.

Thank you for your kind words.

I know you are 100% right. I just can't let go

This means a lot to me. Thank you for the nice and kind words :)

accurate, touching, and sweet :)

nice work! you know what your talking about

I, too, have loved and lost.(Quite a few times over the years!) But I always fall upon the old maxim:-
"Tis better to have loved, and lost, than never to have loved at all!".

As true as that is brysin sometimes moving on can be to painful. You become bitter for too long and even the thought of moving on feels like your betraying the person you lost.

Oh yes, indeed! Very painful. But time is a great healer.And if there is hatred and bitterness, that is not the fault of lost love. That is a fault of character. I lost the person I knew was the one love of my life. We are still the best of friends.When I was seriously ill in hospital, she visited every day.

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