I've been with my boyfriend off and on for 8 years. We have been broken up for 3 years but have been working together for the last 5 years. We talked marriage 3 years ago but my family was so against it and most of the reason for the break up. But now I don't care. We just got back together in January of this year.
Also in the 6 months while we were not together. He meet some girl who's a golddigger and they've been chatting a lot. She contacts him a lot and so does he. I'm not comfortable with their friendship/ relationship and want it to end. She see's a meal card with my boyfriend and if it wasn't for me his business would have failed. Please help me figure out the best spell to cast so she can move on with her life and my boyfriend and I can work on us without her distracting me or him. (i know too much that it's affecting my behavior and energy in the relationship)
Thank you in advance and if you feel compelled to be mean, please don't say anything hurtful.
Spells would manipulate him into coming back, and they would be a bandage on a larger problem. I would talk with him and explain things calmly and together try to meet in the middle. Try to remain calm, since you don't want to start a fight and make things worse. You could try a honey jar or something, but you need to put in the effort to show him why you belong together.
Regarding past pain, you need to learn how to accept and let go. Writing everything out and burning the letter is a common [and effective] way to release pain and find closure. You could aslo try taking a clear quartz crystal, hold it, visualize/remember all the past pain you hold onto, then feel the pain going into the crystal. When you're done, place the crystal in a bowl of salt water and let it purify the negative feelings forever. If you still need help speak to a psychiatrist just so you can get stuff off your chest and someone can give advice to help you grow. Take care.
I'm very sorry to hear of your pain. I can understand your situation on a personal level. It sucks, and makes your whole body and stomach ache, I know!!!
Ok---here's what I would do if I were in your shoes right now.
First.
I would perform a truth spell on the relationship situation between ONLY HIM and YOU (not the other gal). (For truth spells, search this site by clicking on the Spells button at the top of the page...many of them are really good on here). What needs to happen at this initial stage is that in order to have a positive outcome, you need more information on whether or not he is truly the best partner for YOU. So this will clear that up, once and for all. That will be useful knowledge, because if he is not the best person to share your life's journey with at this point in time, no amount of spell casting will work on keeping you together. So it would be helpful to YOU to have that "edge" of knowing.
Second. After you have performed this truth spell, and the truth of the relationship between you and your partner is revealed, you need to decide what your next step is. Let's say it is revealed that he IS the right person for you at this point in your Journeys. You'll want to look into couples counseling, and follow the advice the other poster offered about cleansing negative emotions and talking honestly with one another. Never forget the power of prayer and meditation. Enlist friends and acquaintances for good thoughts, positive vibes, and/or prayer (with respect to individual's personal belief systems). There is Power in Numbers!
On the other hand--let's consider the other scenario. What if the truth spell reveals that this man is NOT the best partner for you at this point in time? You have decisions to make here, too. These will be harder emotionally, of course. If this is the case, I would then perform a clarity spell. This is like a truth spell, but toward your own happy future. Focus this spell on isolating the energy of the man you WILL actually best with, although you may not know of him yet. See what you find out. Sometimes it's a LOT easier to let go when you see the light at the end of the tunnel---that, hey, I have to let this one go, but look how worth it---I will be happy with Mr. X in time.
GOOD LUCK! You are worth true and sincere happiness. If this is the man for you, it will BE SO. If not, you will still find happiness if you SEEK it. I have confidence in you, girl!
