How can we get rid of an unruly spirit
He likes to make us feel uncomfortable, and let's us know he's there, plus he's talking to the child that lives in the house its getting out of hand please help , sage doesnot work and he hates cats
What about a banishing ritual? Would you feel comfortable with that? Or depending on your faith you could ask your Deity for protection. You could also visualize white light around your house asking for only good energy to remain present. Lavender is good for protection used alongside sage, you could burn it and call upon the Lord and Lady as well as the elements to rid of unwanted energy. I hope this helps and it becomes better at home for you.
Is the child old enough to tell you what is being said? Hates cats? How do you know? I would look up banishing rituals to see if you can find one you feel you can do. If you are strong enough, you can raise enough energy to push it out. Your house, your rules. I use sage, but I do ritual, too. Just the burning of herbs doesn't work if you don't add to it your input of getting rid of it. Ask your deity to help. Spraying holy water might. But you need to work the energy part to aid in the banishing, no matter what you use.
I won't say directly jump on casting spells, Instead I'll say focus more on purity and cleansing and protection and then move forward to banishing, for if your action fails, spirit can go wild, thus Defense first, offence later! White light stuff tends to help a little if you are beginner as you need to be experienced with energy work to make it effecient to work powerfully, Use salt water and sprinkle it with a prayer of your choice will work, And remember to put EMOTIONS while saying prayer to give it power.. Burn a mustard or olive oil lamp,while recieting prayers etc..
Blessed Be!
It can only be done if you teach the child to not to afraid of ghost which he feels, there are so many reasons and so many ways to get rid off them, and the first one it to see a little ghostly movie with the child or any Horror series for 10 mins to 60 mins. Then replay it again but, change the sound equaliser setting this time and contrast and brightness too. Try it for 2-3 times only. It will change the mind of your child that everything is different now and child minds also try to make it all wrong and funnier.
Does the spirit like you to feel uncomfortable or are you uncomfortable because there's a spirit? Has it done anything or are you just afraid because 'oh no a ghost.' I would try speaking with it before kicking it out but that's just me. You should look into cleansing and protecting each family member and your house. Make a cleansing brew [warm water, sea salt, lemon juice, rosemary] and use it to wash your house. You should also wash your mirrors with vinegar water to neutralize the energy. Mirrors are seen by some as portals for spirits to get in so washing it with vinegar will close it [you could also rub garlic on it but vinegar smells better] also, sprinkle sea salt around your house [outside, on doorways and windowsill and on carpets. Be sure to vacuum after though]
When you're done, cast a protection spell, wear a protection charm or hang a protection symbol in your house to keep it out. While cleansing you should visualize dark energy being replaced with light energy. If it would help you should also say a chant to tell the spirit to leave. I know you say sage doesn't work but I would continue to burn sage for a day or two. The protection spell however is very important, otherwise it's like you slammed the door but forgot to lock it.
