I need my child back

Hey

I'm Izzie, and I'm new to this site. I'm a 36 year old mother of 2 and I work as a civil servant for neglected and abused children.

I'm very new to spells (approx 6 months) and allthough i have read alot, I am all too aware, that my knowledge is definately in its infancy, and I have yet to cast a spell that works. Up until now, this has been no major deal, as I was just practicing and trying to learn.

However, I am now in a situation where I really need a spell that will work and could desparately use some advice on my spell casting.

My child left home 2 months ago after a major argument, and no amount of reasoning with her will calm her down. Nobody was actually in the wrong, it just got out of hand and some harsh words were spoken on both parts. But now, it can't be undone. She refuses to return, she is so cold when I do speak to her (unless she calls me because she wants something) and at the moment I can see no way back. She won't speak about it, when i do see her, she just wants to tell me how wonderful her new life is, and she can be quite mean in her words. At times, I honestly believe she hates me, I am just an annoyance to her. She is adamant she has moved on.

However she is very young, not yet an adult, and I put alot of her behaviour and stubborness down to her age. Unfortunatley these are the same things preventing her coming home.

I am utterly devastated and just want my family back together. I am in tears everday, which I hate, but I just feel so lost without her here. We should all be under one roof, and living the happy family life that we were until this happened. She had all the freedom she could want, she was loved, guided, and cared for. There were no problems, and she was perfectly happy. But it seems none of that matters now. I just want her home and I want us all to be happy again, as our home is so empty without her. We all miss her desparately. When she isn't being a stubborn and selfish teen, she is actually a lovely warm loving person, who is very funny. But it seems this is now reserved for her friends and 'new family'!

Can anyone on this site please advise me of a spell that may help, because in all honesty, I am out of options, excpet for this, nothing else is working and i feel this is now my only option.

Any advise would be very much appreciated

Thanks for reading my post

Izzie

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Hi Izzie

My heart goes out to you, and I know if I was in your position, I would probably feel the same.

I can't offer any advice as I am so new to this myself, but I hope someone comes along soon and offers you some help/advice with your situation.

Best of luck, I hope it works out for you.

K x

I really feel for you, I don't know any spells to make her come home but I'm sure she will soon. Good luck

Thanks to you both for your replies, I appreciate the kind thoughts.

I can't beleive I am even resorting to magic to help with this situation, I always thought we were strong and could sort anything out between us....we always could. I know a little before she left, she was mixing with some adults, who she was very influenced by. I know they made suggestions to her about leaving home, but never ever thought she could be so easily influenced. I have also been informed that since she left, they have encouraged her to stay away and told her she did the right thing. Unfortunately theres nothing i can do or say to stop this, because if I do say anything to these adults, she will accuse me of interfering, and become ever more estranged. I just feel like my hands are tied, and whilst these adults are influencing her in such a negative way, I have no hopes of getting her home.

Its as if she has just shut down on me, and the longer she stays away, the colder she becomes.

Thats why I need to try this, because its the only thing I have left to try...but because I am so bad at casting spells, I could really use some advice on which spell may work, and what I should do to increase my success.

Thanks again for your support

Izzie

i know the strain of mother/daughter relationships.i left home when i was 14.but my situation was quite different.my mother and i didn't speak for 2 years almost after that.it was of no fault of my own.try a peace spell for 3 days.then a healing spell for 3 days.and then return a loved one spell for 3 days.and u must put your heart in it 100%.and you have to believe in the magyk.nothing is fixed over nite.but it may get you back on the track of having a relationship.ask her to lunch or somethin.just the 2 of you.and don't make it seem that your trying to push her to come home.let her know that you love her and you support her decisions.(even if you don't think they are the right ones.)but she's tryin to be an adult and let her know that you'll always be her mother and you'll always be a rock for her to lean on.and maybe she'll see that you're trying to let her grow up.just be there. BLEESED BE.

Sorry but a spell is not going to fix this. Let her see that her new life is only better because it is new and that life lessons will catch up with her. Soon she will want a "new" life when this new one gets old or is not going the way she wants. That is the problem with teens, they want the easy path not the right path for them. Give it some time, I am sure if her life was as good as you say it was then she will return to your home.

I was in your situation with my oldest daughter, she would barely talk to me for almost 2 years, and would say mean and hurtful things, at first I tried to reach out to her but that just pushed her away even more. I came to realize that just by letting her know I still loved her and I would always be there for her and not trying to push things with her that she would eventually grow and mature and come to understand how things were and why they were or at least a better understanding as to why the were that way. Since then she has grown and matured and we now have an even better relationship. She is now 19 living on her own and moved into the town house next door to me. So just have hope and believe that she will grow and mature and see how things happen, sometimes it can take a long time but I wouldn't push things with her it will only push her away, it sounds like there are things she needs to sort out for herself and will in time. Just let her know you are there for her and that you will always love her.

Again, thankyou so much for your responces, advice and experiences, I can't tell you how lovely it is to find such support from people I have never met, it really is heart warming. Just when you think the world is full of negativity, I come here and find people so willing to offer their input. Thankyou.
I think I am going to try that peace spell, if only to bring some peace to myself, as I feel as though my heart is breaking. I miss her soooo much, its a physical pain.
Its amazing, of all the parenting and pregnancy books I read when they were babies, not one of them told me that they gorw up and break your heart :( If we knew the pain and heartache that our babies will bring, I bet there'd be fewer people having children lol.
Anyway, again many thanks.
Izzie x

well maybe you could try : 1 candle preferable white write on paper her name light candle an burn the paper and saying : my beloved duaghter (state duaghters name) i ask you return safe and sound to my open arms may the past be the past and return to me unharmed may we have another chance together so mote it be. adapt the words however you like and at end meditate on her comeing back and safly in your arms it might not bring her back to you but it may help ur situation best wishes Joethewicca/Darkhorus27

Hi Izzie,
I knew you would get some good advice here, glad that you have recieved some suggestions.

I'm curious though, I never knew you could use a return a love spell for a family situation. I thought they were just for when you had lost a lover kind of situation. Thats really interesting to know.
Would you have to adapt the wording then, to make it work for a family situation?
Kez x