Dream spells vs free will

Hi all,
I have been thinking of casting a "dream of me" spell or a commitment spell to see if that will help my significant other come around and make up his mind on what he wants. However, I was wondering what people's thoughts were on whether this infringes on his free will and is considered force which I try to avoid because I feel it goes against the whole "harm to none" thing. Would love to hear people's thoughts :)

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I suppose it would depend on your intent on the workings more than anything. you can word them however you want, but it is the goal that you hold as you do a spell that governs the action, and so also that is what should lead your moral compass.

For example, if you are trying to sway him into making a specific decision then it could be interpreted as an attempt to make his mind up for him. While if the aim of your intent is to merely help him have the confidence to make a decision, whatever decision that may be, then that would obviously be much more neutral.

In the en, you'll need to follow your own moral compass though, because it is more of a huge grey area than it is a black and white. Some might consider it OK to add a little nudge in one particular direction. Others might rail against it as a violation. Still more might just shrug over the matter, and assume that either way the heart is the heart and will decide on its own.

As a personal opinion, I would just spend some time reviewing my own desires first, and write them down. Then I would think about how I could take the desired outcome and translate it into an empowerment of either the other person of myself. In that the language of the spell should present itself to you.

Thanks Spirit75 that is very helpful I will definitely try what you suggested!