everyone, including i, is have terrible relationship issues. i can name 10 couples who broke up out of the blue, even my now ex dumped me with little reason. do you guys think after the retrograde is over on Nov 15 that things will go back to normal?
I don't think anyone can accurately answer this. You have no proof or evidence that this is even caused by that to begin with. It could as much be attributed to this as it could be to the nearly full moon, and while moon madness is a real phenomenon, it's not usually so extreme to cause such things.
This is most likely a coincidence, and even if something such as a full moon or Venus being in retrograde gave your partner the extra push in mentality to break up with you, there is still a reason why they did so.
You best bet is to contact them and see if you can find out what it was. Same goes to anyone else having relationship issues.
You can always try something like a honey jar spell too to sweeten their attitude toward you, but this would best be used if they are unwilling to talk about the reason for the break-up.It won't simply make them love you. Even if it resulted in you getting back together, unless you find out and address the reason for the break-up in the first place, it will be nothing more than a band-aid, a temporary fix.
Well, i guess a more general question can be; after retrogrades do things usually go back to normal? regardless my status of the relationships, or the ones around me, when do things usually come back from hell after a retrograde?
I feel like retrogrades get a bit of a bad rap. From my understanding, retrogrades simply cause somewhat of a reverse effect of what the planet rules over. For example, Mars is associated with passion and ambition, so when Mars is in retrograde, it might be a good time to take a break from big goals and projects.
I found a discussion on Quora about it here: https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-effects-of-retrograde-planets-Is-it-considered-bad The top response (by Millz NP) is a pretty good answer, from my understanding of retrogrades.
Basically what I'm getting at: Retrogrades can be difficult, because they affect a lot of things we aren't used to being thrown out of wack like that. However, if you research retrogrades and look into what the different retrogrades mean, you can take the time during retrogrades to focus on things that would be helpful to you and that the retrograde would support (for example, since Mercury in retrograde can cause some negative effects in communication, it might be a good time to focus on the self instead of focusing on any exercises in communication).
Sorry to double post, but I forgot to respond to the other part of your question: Yes, after a retrograde is over, the effects of that retrograde should stop. However, as said above, that won't necessarily heal relationships or anything like that, it just might be a better time to start new romantic endeavors after the retrograde is over.
Normal as in attitudes and behaviours, sure? But I doubt all those couples will get back together, simply because the retrograde should only help push an idea or action that was already there or in motion. If you want to fix things with your ex, ask them why they broke up with you and go from there. The retrograde may have nudged them to break up with you, but it wouldn't have been the only cause unless your relationship was unstable to begin with
Just my opinion.
Highly doubt it was Venus Retrograde at fault. Everyone blames their actions on the planets for example like Mercury Retrograde blaming all for what it has done. It is all up to look deep with in the self what cause this to happen and yes I believe everything has reason not a little one. Reasons relationships crumble either no effort with both people or they get bored with the person for not doing what they like. Other's blame the planet Mercury for their problems but still comes down to yourself of why it happens. Maybe it's your fault not communicating in the right manner or you didn't change the oil in the car or not taking care of something. All the planets are their to teach us like parents and to help you in magick or daily life depends of the intent and the perception you are getting but still relies on answers deep with in.
I have to say I dislike the amount of fear people put into retrograde. People usually focus on those retrograde planets and forget about the others. We have a lot of Scorpio energy from the Sun, Venus and a couple others. Please, take time and think about it.
It may seem out of the blue but at this time a lot of video and stuff are promoting the awareness of Domestic Abuse. Not saying this is the case. But it is Autumn. People are shedding things they do not need or may not have the time for. Some relationships happen around this time because people need to focus on academics and their partner is not assisting with their academdics (support) and may be more of strain on them.
We must put ourselves first.
Venus Retrograde usually puts out a lot of energy of getting everything off our back and how we feel this may cause new crops to be reaped or to let the crops spoil. Perhaps a past love interest came back and they want to renew it?
