Sure it can. Sexual energy can be pretty powerful whether it's generated with a partner or solo.
As for using a spell to make a specific person be sexually attracted to you, it's not something I would recommend. Messing with another's free will usually leads to some nasty consequences later. It might be better to use a spell to make yourself sexually attractive in general instead.
Hello! So this is why I'm thinking of sex magic to make another desire me more. My sex drive is the highest it has ever been my whole life. My husband is younger than I and his sex drive is not like mine.
However I would love to know more about your recommendation to make oneself sexually attractive. Please!
With the pandemic my partner and I were unable to go out and do things together because everything was basically shutdown. All we did was spend the evenings at each other’s homes. After awhile this became very, very routine. Honestly we were getting bored with each other. Even when things opened up again it seemed we were having trouble getting back to where we were before this started. I bought this book back in March and it has helped:
“Sex Witch: Magickal Spells for Love, Lust, and Self-Protection” by Sophie Saint Thomas
Just do a search with the whole title and author’s name. I bought the E-book but you can also get it in paperback. Even though we are Gay this book is meant for all orientations. It covers a lot from attracting partners to relationships.
Hmm. IN that case, I would encourage him to make sure his lack of sex drive isn't due to a medical issue or stress. Everyone is different, but it probably wouldn't hurt to get that checked out. This is assuming that he still finds you attractive but just can't get in the mood for some reason.
Have you discussed this with him? Often sex drive is related to emotional state as well. Make sure to communicate with him and see if he is going through something or if there's some stress that is keeping him from focusing on sex or getting in the mood.
Another thing you can try is mixing it up a little bit. Monogamous relationships can hit a rut every now and then sexually due to routine, so talk with him. Ask if there is anything he's always wanted to try. Or if there is something you have been wanting to try, you should let him know.
Another thing you can do is really set the mood. Plan ahead. It might not feel spontaneous, but you could really plan something romantic to get you both on the same page emotionally and sexually. Candles, a nice dinner, whatever comes to mind when you picture a romantic night with him. You might even try surprising him this way. There are plenty of small romance spells you can do here or lust spells to get the energy around you feeling right too.
I really think the best solution in sexual situations is to discuss it with your partner though. If you're feeling neglected or have a higher sex drive lately, explain what you're feeling to him. Tell him what he could do to help you. Ask if there is anything in the way or any reason he seems out of it to you lately, and ask if there is anything you can do to help him. Communication is key here. Lust spells are fun, but they're no substitute for communication if there really is something you two need to discuss.
Magick can not alter free will only influence it. So if he has the sexual capability to sexually desire you then there is a possibility it could work. When it comes to this level of spellcraft, magickcan only influence something that is already there and make it higher. If he has not even an ounce of desire the spell will most likely fail.
