Ok guys. I been pretty well into the Craft a while but I'm really need assistance because I been noticing that I have family who are unsupported of certain choices I'm making when it comes to medical (like I'm a transgender man and I was on my shots for a year, a tragic event happened to me in my crash and here in Texas when I was in coma the doctors told my family my mom and aunt and uncle that the shots I was on would shorten my life span, now they are against any support of my medical! Other doctors have different opinions especially ones who specialize trans folks and it don't help that my family think these doctors who take medicaid are out to kill everyone who works for government?) I need magical assistance in this because when I was on shots, I was happy, working, doing stuff for others it's who I am and to stop me from being who I want to be is BULL. I need advice on magic spell that can change the circumstances and having family to be supportive.
Mind you I'm an adult and I never had issues with my family til this year. It's really upsetting
I am very sorry to hear that you were in an accident, and I am even more sorry about the loss of family support, which seems to be very important to you!
You can always try to do a honey jar spell to attempt to sweeten their opinions about it, however I am not sure that it (or any other magical assistance) would help with that. It sounds to me like their concerns are coming from a place of love for you, because they are worried that they might lose you.
I would suggest that instead of trying to change them, you should focus on yourself and the transformation that you want to make. Perhaps in time, when they see how truly happy and productive you become because of it, their opinions might change and become more favorable.
And no matter what, if you are really feeling the loss of their support, maybe you should let them know that you understand their concerns over your decision to continue your treatment. Then simply (and literally) let them know how much you love them and need them in your life and ask them to continue to love and support You unconditionally, even if they cannot yet support your choice to continue with treatment and see if that helps.
Sorry to hear about your accident. I was in a bad wreck a long time ago and lost a good friend and spent 2 mo. in the hospital, so I know how stressful and traumatic they can be.
In my thinking… you need an ally. Maybe you should pick one of your family members and sit them down (take them to lunch or for coffee…) and talk to them about the situation. Bring up the subject and let them speak first from there. Don’t interrupt and try your best not to get angry or upset. Ask questions when appropriate and make them feel as if you really value and want their input.
Once they are finished then present your side. Stay calm and try to appeal to their sensibility and love for you. Explain that this is who you are, this is what you need, and this is what will bring happiness and fulfillment to your life. Try to get them on your side and then they can become an advocate for you to the rest of your family.
Not knowing your exact situation and with the fact that I’m obviously not a doctor… I would seek a second opinion on your shots. It seems odd that they would tell you that HRT would shorten your life, unless there is an underlying medical issue, or if it is just simply because men tend to live shorter lives than women. I would get clarity on that.
As for spells I would try some sigil magick and get your wants and desires out there into the ether.
