I recently have started to seriously study the craft within a legit coven in my area. I used to be an active addict and in the midst of my madness(addiction) I met my knight in shinning armor.. we fell in ice quickly and clearly made a soul mate connection. But naturally, my addiction and all the insecurities and problems with it, totally pushed him away. I was trying to do love spells to fix it and bring him back and every time he did, my same behavior would sprout up and I would in the end repeat the mistakes of my past... now that I know a little bit more on how to truly cast spells, I want to try one more time at a love spell. Me and my lover are so far apart now because of my actions, but in my heart I can't and won't give up.
Please, give me constructive feedback on why these spells in the past possibly didn't work as well as I wanted (yes I know, the main factor was and still is me), what are effective ways and methods of crafting a love spell, and just any and all general information you can provide that would help. (This is a same sex relationship btw, male)
Hmm, this may or may not be the answer you are looking for, but have you tried getting help for your addictions, there will be no spell that will help your addiction per se, there may be a spell that will boost your confidence. However love spells are hard, they need strong belief (in my opinion) there could be many reasons why your love spells failed not enough belief, you are still new and not sure how to cast them properly, or your past actions are what causing them to fail.
I honestly warn people to stay away from love spells, but mainly that's because I believe in the three fold law, and I believe in Karma. An example would be say you cast the love spell and it works, everything is fine and dandy for a while, but then say your partner finds out that you placed a spell on him/her, thus making the partner ferious and making the break up more painful then it would be.
If you want my feedback this is what I will tell you, I suggest amundane approach, find a meeting where you feel comfortable talking about your addictions and your past actions, tell your partner how you feel about him, let him come to you this time, if he truly loves you he will understand and accept you for who you are, but if you truly want to cast a love spell I suggest a Honey Jar, they work slower, but they are more effective. It won't make him love you, but it will sweeten him up to you.
Thank you. I've been getting a lot of treatment for about three years now. I finally have 6 months clean. But with my relationship, the damage was already done. I did half the damage clean and sober because I still had the mentality of an addict. I didn't learn how to live again until the "obsession" passed. Now I'm sitting here heart broken with so much guilt. But I promised him I wouldn't give up on us. So I will continue to try.
What exactly is this honey jar spell? What do you do?
