There are two causes of this, both surrounding the emotion fear. The first is the fact that fear is a strong energy that spirits can use. What makes fear convenient is that they can fuel this emotion by scaring the person and continue to use them as a renewable energy source. Children are more open to seeing and hearing spirits and they tend to be naturally timid (scared of the dark, lightening, bugs, etc) so they make perfect subjects. This is when already violently "haunted" sites end up having spirits that prey on the children specifically.
The other cause of this is thoughtforms. Children have excellent imaginations and since they are naturally fearful, they think up monsters that then hunt them because they fear they will. Essentially, they form their own nightmares in the astral and since they are naturally better at sensing spirits and energy, the creatures of their fears become that much more real to them. Thoughtforms have been proven in paranormal psychology to actually create polterguest activity. And homes with children who are going through puberty have more spiritual activity in them then ones that do not on average. This is a big reason why thoughtforms gained so much attention in recent years.
When I explained to my daughter that the monster she saw was a spirit she created and she could easily wish it into non-existence, she stopped having problems. I'll admit, I totally guessed on that one and wasn't sure if it was a thoughtform or not. But luckily, super mom saved the day once more. I knew the protection on my house should have kept most things out and I couldn't sense it myself. Until thoughtforms grow and develop, they have no individualism and are of identical energy as their creator.
The key is not "belief" - this is utter nonsense from people who have been lead foolishly to believe in blind faith and basically superstition.
I am willing to assist you personally in stepping on to the Tree of Life and becoming a magician.
I sense your potential, and you certainly have an open mind. Respond to me personally and I'll provide you with a bit of information and a manner for which you can contact me.
It's quite okay to not know much about this - as it's a whole new world to many. However, I am a little upset by just how lacking this website is in actual trustworthy content. And I am really not concerned with any who may be offended by this. I can guarantee that almost 100% of the "spells" listed here will not work simply because they have no solid ground, and those who posted them clearly have no knowledge of numerology or any actual occult knowledge.
In your teachings, I will explain exactly why "belief" is not at all a tool in a magicians "toolkit" and why skepticism is a much safer mindset.
I am what is known as a "wayshower". I personally assist those seeking to begin their journey in to the unknown.
It will require dedication and a strong will.
I am hoping that if you are absolutely serious about this desire to learn, you will heed my call and accept me as your teacher, for I am absolutely serious & have been doing ritual magick and belonging to an occult order for over 15 years.
You have expressed that you feel your young age may be a problem. This is absolutely not the case. The fact that you are young is very much a good thing. You will have established less bad habits that will hinder you in the long run and you will be more open to new concepts and etc. Adults tend to shut their eyes to the world around them whereas a young person can more easily see "what is"
This is an once in a lifetime offer, and you will not hear from me again if you choose not to accept.
Consider this carefully, as I'm am absolutely legitimate, and if you study under me you will very quickly see how almost everything on this site is "wannabe" material and not actually conducive any real or successful magick.
I will clarify: I have chosen you because I sense not only do you have a great potential, but you have what I feel is a pure soul. I can tell you have absolutely no intention to do any harm with the knowledge you will acquire.
I can help you improve your life, the lives of those around you, and make all your dreams come true.
To address the things you mentioned in your post in the order of their appearance:
"Bad spirits" target any whom offer them fear, anxiety, or any such emotion they can feed off. Children are especially susceptible.
"I know the key is to believe" - absolutely wrong. We'll talk more about this later if you choose to deal with me
"I must learn to channel my energy" - That's right, and is easily done, you can start as soon as you know how.
"Curious how to create a spellbook" This is not as easily done as people here would have you believe as there are literally a hundred or more different variables to consider in each "spell".
"Creating an altar" - This is more easily done, and I can instruct you how to construct a suitable altar that meets the correct dimensions.
"I think I know how to create a wand" - This is not something you will do for quite a few years. If you are serious about doing real magick, you must not only talk the talk, you need to walk the walk, and there is a LOT involved.
This is all the information I am willing to offer in this public forum.
You will do well to remember that true occultists and those who are truly aware of the ancient art of mysticism will not readily share their secrets with the world as easily as you will find here spoken by many a charlatan. The art of magick in the wrong hands can be very destructive. And for that reason you simply can't find that kind of information on the internet.
Alas, if you wish to learn and learn true, I am willing to guide you.
If you choose to ignore me, and seek guidance from those you find on this website because you think this is a much easier path, quicker path, etc. This is your future: In a few months you will have achieved no success. You will think you know more than you do now, but in a few months, you won't care anymore, and will believe magic is pure nonsense. And that's because almost nobody here is a legitimate magician offering legitimate advice.
Think on it, think on it long and hard. Choose wisely.
The calling comes only once in a lifetime, and if you ignore it, it may never come about again.
My name is Stephen, I am 25, I have been doing actual magick since age 13 when I discovered I could feel other people's emotions. I am now part of a magickal order based in Vancouver, BC. I have been given permission from this order to educate others and have been encouraged to do so based on my affinity for the material.