i need someones help!

How about you keep your money and give it to a lawyer that specializes in libel and slander laws.

I Dont think its a good to send or give money on this website, i think its against the rules ,im not sure

It is not against the rules to send money; it is done every day when members buy from the SoM store. It is not against the rules to give money! (or any sort of gift).
What is "frowned upon" is asking payment for casting spells!
Professional "Spell Casters" will usually have their post deleted.
And all Mods will advise against sending any money to such "Scams".

pharoeh, you have left yourself wide open to a Scam. Never, under any circumstances,offer money for a spell.You will lose your money, and get nothing!

There are things that can be done to help you perhaps. However, offering money (in such a large amount) is asking for trouble. Bokors do require payment most of the time, but even then you have to weed through the real ones and the fake ones.
What type of rumors? Are you in fear of your life or legal actions? What has happened that you believe a destruction spell was placed on you? You can message me if its to personal for a public post. I'll see if I can help you, or even guide you through it. (No, I don't want any of your money)

Also, you might want to consider having a tarot reading done for you. Entropy is sometime the best way to go. Do you do pendulum work or other forms of divination? This might also help. And lets not forget the power of prayer and/or meditation.

hey zen, thanks for your offer and yes it is too private to get into on the forum.so i'm going to try to message you.

thank you to everybody who talked to me. i really appreciate your help.

Ok, I can you help you out with that. So you basically want someone to help disprove the rim on going around, right?. If so, I'm gonna need a little more info like how the rumor(s) got started & what you've done to disprove them since.

Can someone please help me. I'd rather not say my name, but I have this problem that I've had since I can remember. I hate being a girl!! And the thing is that I know the fact that I'm a girl, which makes me so mad everytime I think of it. I don't think I can live with this hurt that I feel everyday when I look in the mirror and hate myself for who I am. No matter how hard I try to be a girl, it just doesn't work.I've never told anybody about my problem and this is the first time that I have spoken to anybody about it, except myself. Please someone help me!! I would do anything in the whole entire universe for some help and advice, just typing about it makes me feel a little bit better. Please someone reply.:(

@Ada; I replied to your other thread, and you can message me if you wish.

@pharoah; I hope your situation clears up!