my best friend and love

Ok.I will let him go.I will try to be just his best friend.but there was a moment he said that he went to a wrong direction and took me there as well.so he said that now we cant be friends any more, right? Because he said that he feels like a criminal,he got a big regret that he D-tracked me. But i felt that something is wrong with him... Because he was the man of morals respect love care and much more.. if i would be there, with him in the same country.. it would be easy for to find out what it is?! I m sure theres something else,because he just said that he plays in reality and fly away.he broke back years ago so he started partying and all.i felt like he was trying to prove me that he is not good guy.... I dont know why doesnt he think that i know him very well.it makes me curious..as i m not in the same country :(

Give him some space. Sounds like he has some stuff to figure out. And for yourself, try some meditation when the going gets tough. It really helps to re-focus on what's important.

dear... i had this problem myself so i know it hurts

theres a saying me and my friends made a bit ago- "true love is your trusting best friend, your protective brother, and your loving partner. but a true enemy can be formed the same way"

this is delicate... you have to be carful! trust your insticts, every guy is different, so its hard to help

What should i do now ? Should i talk to him ? I dont want to loose him.I cant meet him as i m in another country.i know theres something else.which made him to do this to me . I m sure there is something else.

so tell him that

well... men can be reserved. sit down with him, have a heart to heart. tell him exactly how you feel. and dont yell or fight judge or get mad. he needs to explain when hes ready and as much as he is able

you have to feel a bit sorry for him. i bet he doesn't want to lose someone as amazing as you :) most guys will never do that unless something horrible happens

We are not in the same country.plus he dont want.to discuss it.he ended up saying that we will discuss it later .and that.later never came :(

long distance! those are hard! :(

maybe skype? dont push too hard, but enough... or... try the forget return trick. act normal, and then when he forgets, ask him your relationship or something like that

He doesnt even want to talk ! So i just left him like that..

Guys can be messed up :( If it has gotten to this point, I would suggest you leave him alone and try to focus on healing yourself. He seems to have made a choice.