Hearth said it best, the appeal of being "sexy" or attractive really comes from confidence. Instead of looking for a spell to alter how people view you physically, you should focus on a spell to help yourself be more confident with yourself. Confidence is sensed as soon as someone walks into a room. They are approachable, they go out of their way to speak to people instead of remaining quiet in the corner.
This is difficult for someone that might view themselves as being shy or quiet. That is why if you are going to look for any spell, I would try one that would boost self esteem and outwardconfidence. I used to be very shy as a child. It has taken a long time to overcome this. I have to admit most of my confidence building has come from life experiences. I now walk into any given room and if I see something that jumps out, like I notice a strangers earrings or sweater, I immediately tell them "Those earrings are so pretty." I have done this to a complete stranger. This does two things. For me it validates I can speak to anyone in any given setting. That is a major confidence boost. Second, it may engage a short but meaningful conversation with a complete stranger, which might alter you mood or those surrounding you (generally in a positive way) "Oh thank you, my sister made them. She collects sea glass and these came from a beach in Italy" ..., she has now validated her background which will undoubtedly boost her self confidence.
Just try simple steps like this through out your day. If someone is having a conversation and you disagree with their statement, speak up. State: "I understand your viewpoint, however; my personal thoughts are..." It does not matter if they agree with you or not. You are taking small steps towards being noticed and seen and the energy you are giving off will increase with the confidence you gain. People are drawn towards energy, especially positive.
Good luck! This is a big one that many struggle with, even adults.
My question is why you would want to infiltrate the ring of jerks as you put it?
I had very hard teenage years. Instead of trying to fit in I just wanted to be left alone, so I suppose I never worried about appearing attractive in school.
I used to have a deep belief that I was ugly thanks to my grandfather constantly telling me so.
Eventually I grew up. I don't care if I appear attractive or not these days. I got over it. I did this by looking in the mirror and taking a good honest look at myself. I found myself appreciating things about my face I never had before. I realized I loved my eyes and I learned to force myself to wipe away the brainwashing of others to find what it is I genuinely love about myself.
It doesn't matter if others find you attractive. All that really matters is that you have a positive view of yourself. Strive for you to be happy first.
I do understand the desire to want men to take interest in you. I still would like to be asked out on a simple date.
But not for the wrong reasons. I'd rather have a man appreciate my personality than my face. My face will be getting the good old wrinkles.
My personality and spiritual worth is much more lasting.
Take the time to write out a list of what you appreciate about yourself, be it your bravery, your hair, your intelligence and focus on finding things about you that you love.
You have plenty of time to work on the beauty side of things.
But what I don't understand is why you feel you need a spell? A good start is to take care of yourself.
Put some research into skin care, hair care etc.
And what goes into these things and how these products are made.
What do you believe in? What causes are you fighting for? Try and get passionate about something.
Then there will be plenty of substance and conversational quality for when you do find yourself speaking to the guys.
And if the guy isn't looking for someone with substance?
Why are you giving him a second glance?
You have plenty of time to figure these things out.
The quickest fix is posture. If you stand tall you will probably feel more confident, and others will be more likely to notice you. If you feel like going the extra mile, you could use certain techniques to intensify your presence or advertise certain aspects of yourself subconsciously. A lot can be done with basic techniques and concepts like the law of attraction and energy manipulation. Good luck, and do try to stay out of trouble.
I started out as a clumsy, silly little girl. What changed? My confidence. It's all about confidence. Now my gmail is literally stuffed with modeling offers, and I was mailed two weeks ago about the Miss Missouri pageant and was asked to become a candidate.
If you can be sure of yourself, your posture, energy, and walk will change.
Be confident that you don't need everyones approval, just those that matter. It's a fine line between pride and confidence.
Makeup helps highlight your natural beauty, it's not meant to cover it. Private message me for makeup tips if you want them.
