I was recently watching my favorite TV show and watched a scene in which a chef suggested his stew on the grounds that it had been popular dish that day, when the man he was speaking to pointed out that it was the only dish that day so that wasn't saying much.
Precisely how much does this person actually love you if that love must be held together with magick and duct tape?
Besides being immoral on grounds of restriction, I therefore also find it to be a very sad and empty thing doomed to failure. You can force the relationship and you can trap the lover, but you cannot force love to be.
That doesn't need a love spell, that needs a banishing or an uncrossing or something else that addresses the cause, not the symptom. Same as any other scientific effort.
if you have a love spell put on you couldn't you just wave it off.if it was some one that did not turn you on.or are some so powerful that you are helpless and fall inlove with the witch.
Re: opinion on love spells By: Vanitys_Fire / Knowledgeable
Post # 9 Jul 03, 2012
In concerns of a love spell being right or wrong, I would have to say that it all depends on the purpose for the spell.
A love spell that would be for trying to make some one love you, in my opinion, is looked down upon. It's not a moral action to try to make some one love you to begin with. Not to mention it is doomed to fail any ways. It wouldn't be real love. You would only be causing the person to feel a false emotion for you. Love is magickal on its own, but magick cannot create love. And because of that it is doomed to fail. I see a few possible scenarios that would be the result of this type of love spell: 1) the person will eventually come to realize that he/she does not love you. And during the process there will be a mental and emotional dispute within the person. Such as why am I feeling these emotions for this person? Another could be I don't like this person yet I have these emotions, so are they real or am I making it up? And with this comes the sense if an obligation to continue on with what is there. But the person may long to be away but this obligation holds the person there despite the fact. Just some examples that come to mind. 2) the spell will eventually wear off and the person will no longer feel these false emotions. 3) this one could end up with the person growing to truly love the one who put the spell on him/her in the first place. But being that the spell could still be active this could create a sense of mixed emotions. The feeling of both true love and false love. It would be very noticeable like the difference between living some one truly and having a crush yet saying you love the person. I wouldn't suggest this possibility be tested for I see it being less likely to happen, though it could. And being that it could I suggest instead going about things in a more proper and respected way to gaining love in return by the other person instead of doing a spell for it.
A form of love spell that I would find more reasonable and acceptable to cast is one that will draw love to you. An attraction spell if you prefer. This would be a spell cast that is in general. Meaning that it won't be directed at a single person, but instead help you, more-or-less, find your true love. Help with guiding that person to you. Think of it like a nudge in the right direction. The spell wouldn't do the work for you, only help you to an extent. But of course with this you would have to work on finding the person, getting to know him/her, growing love, etc; and respectively on both sides.
I still say that a spell shouldn't be cast for making a person love you. If you want love, or for some one to love you, you should do it your self. Work for it. You will appreciate that much more. Love is worth the wait and the effort to find it. There are no shortcuts for it.
If the person truly loves you then there should be no worry about the person looking at any one else; no worry about them being faithful to you. But with human nature as it we will be skeptics at times. He/she would want you alone and not be eyeballing any other person. If other people are interfering then that can be a problem. A good way to handle this would be to leave the people out of the equation. First of all, they should be respectful and not interfere unless it's a true legitimate concern about the relationship. It's your business not theirs. If you can't seem to get away try reasoning with them. And if all else fails, use a banishing spell to keep them at bay. Maybe a binding spell so that they won't interfere.
personally, i'm not a fan of most of them, and the reason people cast them. some high school boy/girl has a crush on someone, instead of talking to them, they ask for a spell that makes the person fall instantly in love with them. granted i was that age once, i acquired a few good love spells, but knowing that it was the spell making the person play out a fantasy [and that my dream guy is a voice actor i've never met] i never cast them, i scrapped the spell and moved on.
spells like that bother me, when someone likes someone else, and either that person doesn't return the affection, or doesn't know you, the option is to make them love you. those spells i feel are negative, since you're taking away anothers free will so you can be happy.
the ones i don't have a problem with is you want someone, but you don't like anyone, so you want a spell to send out so you can find the special someone sooner. that one you're not telling another they will love you, you're more or less going on a universe dating service.
the only love spell i ever fully cast was for my mom. she didn't want a boyfriend, but a male friend to go to dinners with, see concerts with, go to the theater, stuff like that. so i cast a love jar spell, but used yellow ribbons and flowers for friendship, instead of pinks and reds. the jar had to sit in the window to catch the sunrise for a week, then it was burred. one week later, mom got a call from an acquaintance asking if she'd like to go to a jazz club. they've been good friends for the past 4 months, and he was over on Saturday for steak.
"only having eyes for you" - The thing is that your lover will be attracted to other people. It's normal and healthy. If you cast a spell that makes your lover less attracted to others, you will be repressing love. And when the spell wears off, your lover may have a surge of being more attracted to everyone. It's like a pendulum. If you swing it one way, it will swing back the other way just as much.
Most of the time, you're worried about nothing. But, if your lover's actions are making you feel a certain way (like maybe looks at others in public or flirts with others), it's best to talk about it. Often times honest conversation is the most powerful form of magic.
"keeping a lover faithful" - Why are so worried that your partner is going to cheat? Maybe you think an attractive person is threatening to your relationship. Maybe you are insecure about yourself. Maybe you are the one who thinks about cheating, and you assume your lover does too.
It might be a better idea to cast a spell on yourself, first. One that brings attention to your own attractiveness and your positive traits. And maybe one that gives you a keener sense of what your lover is attracted to, and how to satisfy your lover. This way, you are not trying to cast a spell on someone without their permission.
I feel like love spells are manipulative and selfish.
*SIGH*
But, I suppose all is fair in love and war....right?
It's all depend on each individual. For me it's a selfishness and can kill my pride,modesty and respect. I am lucky to use my natural charm. But for some other type it's ok to keep a "slave" near and enjoy! For some ,spell is a last option to be happy in this world lol. Some people casting this spell,because they are weak and can't handle a pain from being abandoned. Some people full of complexes sitting behind the doors and casting spells on neighbors....there certain spell,which can attract love without a certain person and I feel it's ok to use it as a last option to find love. Kind regards
So I'm confused. I've always read and believed that just because you cast a love spell that focuses on a particular person, if the person has no feelings for you the spell won't work. It doesn't seem that we are therefore bending free will. Also, I've read that if it's not in the bigger universes' plan it won't happen either. I consider those two escape hatches that ensures you aren't enslaving someone for your selfishness.
