Basically, she told him a bunch of lies that he doesn't know about (I didn't know until recently) and he still wants to be friends with her. She's doesn't want to come clean and I'm not going to out her.
It's also come to light that she's done some things behind my back as well and it's just best that she's moved out of the picture completely. I really didn't want to get into it, but I know many people here are big on the intentions being pure.
Yeah, seeing what the future has in store may be the best. Since it kind of seems like he's in to you, a love spell can't really make him love you and forget completely about the other person. The best bet would be to continue through and see what happens.
Maybe love is the wrong word here. Perhaps I'm asking the wrong thing.
I know he's attracted to me and likes me, she's even told me that independent from him.
I think my biggest fear is that there's a "stink" (only word I can think of at the moment) from her putting us together, from her lies, etc.
I don't want to do her any harm. However, the truth is she's done things to me and him already. I don't want to have to come back and ask for help later if she continues her BS when I already know what she's capable of.
This has all come out over the course of a few months. I don't need to be hit more than once to know to duck. That is why I wanted something to move her away.
This isn't he said/she said, I've seen the emails and texts as has he. I've forgiven her, but given the chance, she continues to do things. I can only imagine trying to pull dinner off (which only would be disastrous for her), but there's no reason to.
You could do a "reverse binding". Instead of drawing the two together it would split them apart. However, if he already knows she has been lying to him I see no point.
An example of a reverse binding: Take a picture of each person. Glue the pictures face out, at opposite ends of a brick, large rock, or block of wood. While doing this, visualize them stepping away from each other and slowly walking farther apart. See them living their lives separate from one another, and being content with it. Depending on your faith/path, you could ask for help from a god(dess), spirits, guides, etc. Do not tie with chord as a traditional binding, as you do not want them tied together in life. If you normally cast a circle, call on the elements etc do so. Personally I would do this during a waxing or new moon as the energy is better for pushing things away. Hope this helps you :)
sorry but i have to say it's not worth your time. A guy should like you for YOU. Not because he's brainwashed to think that. That's not love! Not one bit. Besides, if he already likes you, then DONE! :)
My inclinations were correct. Everything was fine with me and him last night, then I woke up to a bunch of texts from him this morning because she went nuts last night. She made us out to be better friends than we actually are (I use the word friend, I'm not fond of the word acquaintance) and he's reevaluating things because he doesn't want her craziness in his life and thinks it will be if we're together.
