Help me please PERSONAL!!

Help me please.I konow it will be more a personal love story but I don't use any othe sites with forums an I aks help fom magicians.Please help me:((So here it goes.I have a girlfriend. Evrything was fine 4 a while... But now Today I foun here cring in the schools halls.I heard so talking that she was crying for one of my friend (a guy)I als heard that all tha school know that she actally love him aswel :((I heard even more stiuff like she is flirting with him at classes.and she isn't telling me anything nothing in the world about this she invented something to explain the crying.:(( what can I do to help myself with the girlfriend:((:((HELP ME:((

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I am desperd I love here so much I feel like Rooting from Inside out I even have EMO thinking aswall:((

Well, I normaly do not get involved in such problems however I see a simple way to help.
If she respects you and loves you then you have nothing to worry about, she is either A:"Shopping Around" or B:Testing you to see how you would react.
You should just love her, and make yourself better than any other guy there and have alot to offer her and never ever flip out at her over this, simply talk it over, and ask her if she is looking for someone else or not, and that you know of this (not how you know just that you know) and if she is shopping around ask her what you would have to do to keep her, that you love her like nothing else and want nothing more than to keep her. That should work.

Dump Her.

Find someone True to you and stop wasting your time.

that's another good ansrwe but my feelings will not let me do that

yea i agree wiv zaet if she really dose love yoo she would tell yoo bout this but maybe she cant because youv done so much 4 her that she dont wanna hurt yoo have yoo tryed talkin to her bout this or even ask her y she was cryin?

Yes I did She guessed something with a teachear talkin rude with her

Well..you have to ask yourself, do you trust your girlfriend's word over rumors from random people?

Now if you do trust her.. then stay with her, just be a little more... observative, and keep an eye on her, if it turns out she is cheating.. then break up.

If you DONT trust her enough your probably in deep crap anyways, trust is very important in a relationship so... if you cant trust her then you might wanna break up anyways, or talk to her.

If you DO talk to her about it.. heres a tip, dont get angry or upset right away.. you need to be serious about the situation and show her you REALLY want the truth wether it's bad or good.

Hope helps some xD

"Shopping around"? This isn't the super market.

IF and I do mean IF the story behind her crying is actually true ( god love he said she said )...

Your friend probably gives her the attention and KIND of attention that she actually wants.

You love her, and that's all fine and good..but what do you do for her?

Basically...either she's just "that" kind of girl ( which I doubt if she's crying about it ) or you aren't doing something for her and she's seeking attention from anyone else that will give it.

Lol, but you cant just give him the "IF it's true"

Thats just gonna make him look at it from the bad point of view.

Theres a very good chance it's all just rumors and she really does love and want only you, so dont be rash to assume the worst until you know the truth...

Believe me i have assumed the worst right away and it doesnt work so good, then she might just leave you for being "over protective" or something of the such.

Trust me, find out the truth first and figure out wether you trust her enough or not to stick through it with her.