In bygone days young girls would take the opportunity to perform various acts of divination, usually to discover whom they would marry. You might like to try some of these yourself – you don’t have to be a young girl to be interested in potential lovers – but be warned, some of them are pretty scary, designed to conjure up an apparition of the lover, rather than the warm-blooded version in person.
At midnight on St. John’s Eve, walk seven times sunwise around a church scattering hempseed and say: “Hempseed I sow. Hempseed I sow. Let the one that is my true love come after me and mow.” When you’ve completed the circuits, look over your shoulder to see your true love coming after you… with a scythe.
On Midsummer Eve take off your shift and wash it, turn it inside out, and hang it over the back of a chair in silence, near the fire. You will see your future husband, who will arrive to turn the shift at midnight.
You can test whether a partner returns your love by following this ancient Roman method of divination: Take an apple and after eating it, take one seed and call it by your lover’s name. Flick it from your finger with your thumbnail – if it hits the ceiling, your love is returned!
Daisies are associated with faithful love and are sacred to the love goddesses Venus, Aphrodite and Freya. Their folk name “measure of love” comes from the following charm: To find out whether someone loves you, take a daisy and pull off the petals one by one, saying alternately, “He loves me, he loves me not,” with each petal. The final petal will give you the answer.
To discover when you will marry, find a meadow or lawn where daisies grow. Close your eyes and pull up a handful of grass. The number of daisies in the handful is the number of unmarried years remaining to you.
One Welsh method of divination called ffatio involves washing clothes at midnight in a well, all the while chanting: “Sawl ddaw I gyd-fydio, doed I gyd-ffatio” (“He who would my partner be, let him come and wash with me”). The lover will then appear to help with the laundry.
Walk around the church nine times and place a knife into the keyhole at the end of each round saying: “Here is the knife. Where is the sheath?” The symbolism of this is rather obvious and needs no comment!
Fast on Midsummer Eve until midnight, then spread a supper of bread, cheese, and ale on a clean cloth and leave the front door wide open. Your future husband will enter the room, drink a glass of ale, bow and leave. Or it might be a burgler
