My fiance wants to leave me because I told him a small lie. He says if I lied about the little things I'll lie about big things. We are in a long distance relationship and have had numerous ups and downs through the past year. He has currently cut all contact with me and I want him back. I want this life we dreamed together. I did one spell to control the situation, another one to stop the arguement, and a love spell to bring him back. It worked for a total of 4 days and we are once again not on speaking terms because he calls me a liar. Now what spells can I do and why did it only work for four days? Did my spell just stop working or is this a lull to bring about the official outcome? If you need more info, I will be willing to supply it. I need answers urgently.
i think your going to have get him back without magick you can't change someones free will you have to prove to him you two are ment to be together magick can't solve every problem sometimes its up to you
I dont think this is the site to post personal problems unless they are spiritual. This site was meant to be for magick and the occult not relationship issues. Im not trying to be mean but im just making a statement.
I hope so. Only problem is that I have a terrible past record and I really been trying to improve myself which I have to various degrees. But he tends to overreact quite a bit so I continue to tell these little lies in hopes to avoid conflict which doesn't work anyways because we always have a full-blown disagreement. I turned to magic because these disagreements are draining my energy and I feel like I don't have many options left.
Re: Urgent Relationship Help By: Frappes15 / Beginner
Post # 7 Mar 15, 2012
The most important thing in any relationship, especially long distance, is communication. Look man, you have to help yourself first, if he's going to keep acting like a first grader and saying, "NO. You did something I don't like! Go away!" You guys are NOT going to get married. Do you even want to marry a first grader anyway?
Just talk it out with him, maybe do a spell to get him talking but that's /it/. The rest you have to do YOURSELF. WithOUT magick. You have to communicate your feelings and remind him you guys are engaged. If you two ain't talking, why are you engaged? Huh?
This could be sprung up from guilt of what he's done of course it could also just be he thinks he's a saint and doesn't tell no white lies. Or maybe the "little thing" to you is a "big thing" to him. Another thing is, he can be VERY stressed right now. This is just utter blasphemy, you're engaged! You guys are adults! You should be above the, "She said something I don't like! So I won't talk to her anymore till she says sorry!" tactics.
Dayum. There's no need for magick for this when you've got ears and a mouth, remember to also LISTEN to him. Don't just talk, give each other a turn to say what's all on their mind. So please, be a bit more like your age and write him a letter and mail it to him or attempt to work it out on webcam or something. Make it intimate, remind him of why you're engaged and if he thinks it's such a big deal, he simply isn't the one you should marry.
wow relationship vs magic(k). first of all heres a spell that works wonders (for those who want to hear about magick)
OK what you need is a white candle and a red candle , a pen or pencil, a piece of paper, bath oil any kind as long as it is a calming type, and some thing to burn the paper in, first thing after ya set your circle is wight a dear john letter don't hold any thing back ,cry and scream if you want tell this person every thing you wanted to tell them in the letter, then light the letter and burn it. Close your circle light the candles make a hot and soothing bath climb in give a good cry, after the bath TRY to get some sleep and when the day starts over keep this in mind. Some of the greatest lady's in life where not seen hanging all over some man and if they can move on... you can to. From a druids point of view it's not hard life as we know it is full of heart breaks we can not control, show me a person who never lies and I will make them feed a million people with a loafe of bread and for entertainment make them walk across the ocean unless I am the last man on the planet you have a chance to meet another, It just feels like it is the end of your world, find a close friend and have a good long cry, curl up with a family member and tell them you love them and last but not least remember a relationship is like a rose, hold it to tight and you crush it, hold it to lose and it will fall, hold it just right and enjoy it for what it is a ROSE
There is TOO much magic flying about here and I sense that the universe doesn't know what you want what he wants etc etc. You've muddled the waters so much that any more would probably be disastrous. If he 'overreacts' to everything and you 'have' to lie about it then why are you with him ? If you think he does this NOW when its long distance what do you think will happen when your 'together' ? I don't see a future because if he 'does' eventually find out that you used magic on HIM for whatever reason he's going to go 'ballistic' !! I see you with a practitioner like you !!!
