How to tell Boyfriend:

I was wondering. How would I go about telling my boyfriend that I am a wiccan? I only think that when you are in a committed relationship you should tell him. But only if and when your committed. And do I wait to tell him before I marry him or on our Honeymoon night?

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i think you should let him know before you marry him. Don't hide yourself

Probably best to bring it up well before talk of marriage gets put on the table. Beliefs are important factors in deciding a marriage partner, and it's something that the two of you should discuss at length - not because you're a Wiccan and he might not like that, but what if he has a belief system that YOU'RE not cool with? It's important to weigh these into consideration with relationships. There's nothing wrong or shameful about being a Wiccan, so maybe just pick a day where the two of you sit down to discuss it, and also set out to discuss his belief system (if he has one) at length. But best of luck!

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Definitely something to be upfront and forward about. U act like being wiccan is wrong and needs to be hidden. Be proud and honest with who u are and what u are. If ur boyfriend is right for u he will accept all of u for who u are. Indeed best to get through it before marriage ever comes up. Good luck!

I would think that religious and spiritual beliefs would be among those things that one discusses with a potential spouse before deciding to spend a lifetime together.

I do not act like being wiccan is wrong. I'm actually single at the moment. I didn't know wither witches like everyone to know their wiccan or whatever religion they may be. I just feel once the relationship gets serious. I want to know the best way to go about telling him. you don't got to bite my head off about it. Just a general question.

I forget how it came up but I told my boyfriend early in our relationship. He doesn't have a religion but he's very spiritual [if that makes sense] I can't remember who brought religious views up, but we both basically don't care what the other believes. I know not everyone is as laid back, but he should understand. If I were you I would tell him before you move in together. Pick the right time, don't spring it on him, and be prepared to answer questions. If you're lucky he won't mind, maybe I'm just lucky, but those who I've told that are close to me don't mind.